Well Marianella, I have no wonder you get stared at you are gorgeous. I am like others here that I had a lot of fears about being seen going out. I used to dash out quickly and hope for the best. Only once did I get a question about the lady using my car. I fobbed that off by saying my sister borrowed it and that seemed to do the trick. In the end I told a few neighbors and they were fantastic. Now I come and go as I please as the old know and the new only see and interact with the lady they see.
Maybe tell your neighbors as it is clear you need to be seen!