Hi Em! I’m from the UK also and am still largely in stealth mode though my wife is aware now. Most of the time I’m Thea crossdressed as a bloke, and still like to get things without drawing too much attention. Amazon lockers are useful as is eBay’s click and collect. More and more though I use store’s own click and collect: I make out I’m picking things up for my wife: though most places just hand over a black plastic bag so there’s never been a hassle. M&S, George at Asda, Next, Peacocks have all been fine! Best wishes and don’t hesitate to message me if there is anything I can add!