Reply To: Have you seen a therapist?

[Meredith]

One therapist told me privately that my crossdressing was not the issue in the marriage even though my then wife harped on it.  He said the issue was control; my crossdressing was the one thing she felt she could not control in the relationship. My ex once told me that what bothered her was, “You look better in sexy little nothings than I do.”  Which was true.  Either way, I guess I was vindicated some how or other. I still don’t understand her, but then I quit trying to a long time ago.