Reply To: Guess I don’t need to worry about the SO’s acceptance

[Kristen Smithly]

Sorry to hear about this. I’ve been married 3 times (all 3 wives knew of my crossdressing before I ever asked them to marry me) the first wife left (or rather, I left her) because she didn’t think she should stop sleeping with other men even though she was married. She just wasn’t too keen on marriage, but was all for my dressing, we both enjoyed it. Second wife was fine with crossdressing until got involved (23 yrs into our relationship) with a very conservative church, whose main train of thought was if you’re not white, heterosexual, you’re a sinner and basically scum of the earth…that caused a lot of problems in our marriage. She also donated a lot of money to that church and so the downfall began. Still married to the third wife who varies in her thoughts on having a husband called Kristen, but we are compatible in most other regards. I hope this is the best thing for you.