Reply To: What compromise works for you and an unaccepting SO?

[Emily Alt]

I had a DADT arrangement with my GF.  She didn’t want to see me and refused to discuss things.  But she did acknowledge my need to be myself.  So the compromise was I could do weekend trips to other cities about once a month.  This worked well for a couple of years.

Eventually I realized I’m trans and needed to live authentically.  We separated but remain best friends.

/EA