Reply To: Bit of rant, but I need to get it out

[Helene van der Tee]

Hi Jessica, you refer to your autism in you post. I take it you have had a diagnose and maybe have acces to professional help. None of us know how far we will go until we have tried it. Your wife assumes that sexuality is always attached to sex, dressing like a female doesnt mean that you would want to transition, I have no wish to be a cisgender female. Even when dressed, with breast prosthese and fully made up, I still feel like a me, ‘a man dressed as a woman’. It makes me feel great, it fulfills a need in me that I cant really explain. I am heterosexual and thus is my sexuality not a question. Try and speak to someone who can help answer you questions in a professional and logical way.