Hi Jessica. Your questions have already been asked countless times already by most of us. It is all part of the journey. The if’s, whys and maybe’s are normal to ask oneself simply because we dont understand it. There are 101 reasons why we dress up in ladies clothes, it could be a deep seated desire that was in hibernation, it could be Genetic, it may be a Fetish. Whatever the reason the net result is the same. It is nothing to be ashamed of and i’ll bet you most guys have tried their wifes or girlfriends panties or tights on at some time in their lives.
To have a Wife who is not too keen on you dressing makes things difficult, this in turn can create anger or resentment towards your partner. Remember this though, its hard for her to understand and its imperitive you look at it from both sides. Maybe she might warm to the idea, maybe not. Everyone is different. It may be that you should choose a time when you are alone and see how you feel, after all, if you dont try it, you will never know. Be warned though!! it can become addictive…..