Hello, and congratulations on having such a lovely, supportive wife. Life is so much better that way.
I have enjoyed several trips to The Netherlands, and think it would be a great country to dress en femme since all the people are so open and friendly. Have fun exploring this new experience and keep talking with your wife about it to see were it takes you and to what level you are her are comfortable with. My wife is wonderful as well and I get to enjoy wearing what I choose.
Feel free to drop me a PM anytime.