Hi Stephanie, I think at one time or another we all go through the “am I trans or am I a crossdresser” dilemma. Mine came early (even before the words ‘crossdresser’ or ‘trans’ were in the lexicon. In the late 60’s I was so convince I should change my sex I enrolled in the Johns Hopkins gender reassignment program. Back then it was a long and arduous process to change your sex. One of the requirements was living full time as a woman for a minimum of two years. I was about six months into it when an event happened (better told elsewhere) where I was so traumatized I completely gave up crossdressing for almost fifty years. In retrospect it was a blessing, because if I had gone through with SRS I would have not had the loving wife and family, the wonderful career and some of the most unusual experiences anyone could ever have. I guess what I am trying to say is sometimes life makes decisions for us, and many times they are the right ones. I look forward to hearing how you are progressing with your decision. Hugs, Paulette
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