Hi to a fellow Lily! Though I like Lilly with two L’s in the middle. 🙂
Unlike you though, I have never considered reassignment. I like both roles in my life. Recently I came out, for the first time, to a close GG friend. She has been most supportive.
I will have to look at your profile to see what country you are referring to.
As for your last line…..I am working on trying to accept myself fully. If I can change a few minds along the way….super!