I’m the middle child of 3 boys. Both my parents worked so most chores fell on us boys. We did laundry and dishes. Cooked and cleaned in the kitchen. Swept, moped, and vacuumed as well as dusting. We did outside chores too but I do remember volunteering to do the inside stuff more and letting my older brother do mostly outside stuff. This gave me chances to snoop in my mom’s stuff.
Also I was my mom’s side kick. I went to the grocery store with her. The mall for shopping. I remember sitting in the women’s section and sneaking peeks and feeling the materials. I know she had to have an idea that I was going through her stuff but never said anything about it. She did joke with me a few times about buying me a dress or bra. I never got anything but I wish I would have been braver and talked to her about it. Maybe one day still.