I would say most ladies in general if they saw us cross dressed , would NOT be interested in the least. While some may be intrigued by our dressing. I have yet to see or find many that seek us out or look for someone that cross dresses.
They are typically fine with cross dressing..just as long as its not their man or impacts them.
Speaking from my perspective, there was a fine time line of when I told my current wife. If I had shared too early, she woudl haev said, not interested. But since she had gotten to knwo me first and built our relation, when things were getting more serious, I shared it with her before things got even m ore serious so if she could not handle or did not want to deal with it, it gave her an out.
Too many ladies want their “man” but yet want them to not be so hard or caveman like.