Reply To: Why is urge getting stronger

[Paulette Parfois]

Hi Jennifer.You have asked a very good question, but one that has no simple answer. Why we choose to crossdress is ‘all over the board.’ Some do it for the erotic thrill. Some because they truly believe they are girls trapped in a man’s body. Some because they desire to explore their femininity in greater depth. And many because it is a stress reliever to escape ‘man’s world’ pressures. And on and on! Whatever your reason I advise you to follow Shakespeare’s words: “To thine own-self be true”. So don’t let anyone tell you what is right or wrong, One of my good friends, who is well known in our community, has said “If you are trying to understand why you do it- good kuck!” So just enjoy and live for the moment! Hugs, Paulette.