Dear Leena,
This is common with many couples, your wife seems accepting in order to preserve the relationship. Till comes the day she can’t take it anymore and you wonder what went wrong. A hetero man, a husband, a boyfriend, dressing as a lady is difficult to understand. A challenge to her femininity. A support group is helpful, I despise therapists.
You have to be honest with yourself, then her, how far this will go. A woman may want to make her man happy, up to the point when she’s living with another woman. You say you can’t continue if she’s hurting. If you can manage to stop, you’ll be grumpy and she’ll feel it’s her fault.
It’s important that she understands that you can’t willingly quit. And for you to understand that she wants the man she married in her life. That means no panties or nighties in the bedroom.
Dress up times can be agreed on, she can participate or not. You two have a decent start in that she knows you CD and is trying to be supportive and really doesn’t know how.
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