Exactly! There are so many more choices out there for women. I have all kinds of colors, fabrics, textures, cuts, and styles of lingerie. I especially love florals, satin, and very soft spandex microfibers. Many laces are nice, but some are just too scratchy and uncomfortable. I accidentally bought a pair of Lazer cut seamless panties, with no elastic at the legs. They are so uncomfortable, and don’t hold a tuck at ALL! Big mistake.
In drab I wear boxer briefs. For Christmas one year, my wife (who doesn’t know I’m a CD) bought me several pairs in different colors (burgundy, blues, red, etc.) and in a very soft spandex fabric. I now exclusively wear those, when I can’t underdress. The fabric feels as soft as my favorite panties, and in bed at night, I have found I can even stay tucked in them for a few hours while I sleep. They make my drab wear so much more tolerable.