It is just today’s reality, the damned cameras are everywhere. All the more reason to just own up to your dressing. I have no idea if my neighbors have cameras, some probably do. If they “catch” me on their camera, so be it. While I don’t announce my dressing to the neighborhood, I honestly really don’t care. I spend a lot of time in my very visible backyard so no doubt I have been seen. If my neighbors are looking to see something, it is on them not me.
As I have said before, I am a big believer in being honest to your spouse. She may not like it, but it is the way you are. It seems most have a benign tolerance, DADT attitude. Some are hostile and you just have to deal with it in some way, but at least you don’t have to live a deception. Many spouses are reasonably, or very supportive. My philosophy is it is better to control the conversation on your terms then to show up on a ring camera and deal with a mad, upset or betrayed feeling wife.