Reply To: How do you look?

[Carmen Cruz]

Hi Michelle, thank you, and yes, we are definitely our own worst critics. There are plenty of things I would change in my appearance if I could, but my logical brain stops me from impulsiveness… it’s the law of diminishing returns… I don’t think I can get much more return on value if I invest in HRT or FFS. Would I get hit on more if I got FFS? I doubt that. Would more people tell me I’m beautiful in person? Or hot? Or sexy? Or gorgeous? I doubt that too.

But a significant portion of my attractiveness (in public) doesn’t come from how I look… do you see where I rated myself a 10s? THAT makes all the difference in social interactions. But, I don’t take my physical appearance for granted, it’s just that I don’t think it’s all about that!

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