Reply To: wanting attention

[Carmen Cruz]

I’ll preface this by saying I’m single.

But to answer your question, YES, but it’s not for a date. Attention, getting hit on, for me, is simply used as validation that perhaps I succeeded in my goal. I admit, it’s also fun getting compliments.

This is also an area I believe being born male has a huge advantage… I know exactly what most men are thinking as soon as I walk in the door. From where they’re going to position themselves to get a view, to making a mental excuse to be near you in some way, to what action or look will take their breath away. I use all those things in my favor. LOL.

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