I said “yes” although for some of the same reasons a few ladies commented “no”. That is, for me, crossdressing has allowed my femininety to express itself and to be realized! I could physically and emotionally feel the joy and wonderfulness of being female! Yet, no matter how much this persona appealled to me and how great it felt, I also realized I enjoyed my male self and life and would not transistion any further. Thus, crossdressing brought me the realization I was compatible with two genders and one sex; often referred to as “the best of two worlds”.
When younger there were only two (well defined) genders and crossdressing/trans information only came from porn magazines, which wasn’t, nor is an upstanding reference. So pressure to be one’s born sex was substantial and guilt was heavy on the crossdresser. Then came the internet with other types of views that explained “why” the crossdressing urge exists as well as the “how” to live with it. These realiztions are what made me secure in my crossdressing, even though there are many non crossdressing attitudes and people in the world.
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