Hi April. Good question.
I came out to the wife over six years ago so now its no big deal for her to see me dressed in some way around the house. Her limits are she doesn’t want me to wear dresses, skirts, heels or makeup. So each morning I dress with a different bra including my silicone forms. I usually wear a pair of leggings, panties (24/7), and a pastel fem tee or blouse I dress like this every day at home all day.
Wife doesn’t want me going out in public all dressed so when I go out I underdress keeping the panties and bra on but without the forms and if the weather is cool enough I’ll wear my small forms under a light coat. Sometimes pantyhose too.
As for other fem things, I have a long ponytail in a matching to my top scrunchie, have earring studs now in both ears, use fem lavender deodorant, nails are trimmed nicely with clear gloss, toenails are polished with a red color, legs are shaved, face is smooth and moisturized, eyebrows are trimmed and shaped a little but not too much, armpits are shaved and forearm hair cut very close, same as with chest hair. Many times I wear a feminine pad to keep my panties clean. I express my fem side every day!