I do not intend to be flippant or to over simplify your problem, but I have always said that there are some men who have to stop for a few beers on the way home from work on a daily basis. There are some who have addictions to various drugs. Some men can’t pass a casino without emptying their wallets and the real losers go home and take their frustrations out on their significant others with violence. Let’s not forget the ones who can’t seem to hold down a job.
On this site, we have men who like to wear women’s clothes. It might sound a little odd to some folks, but if you think about it, what does it hurt? Not only that but wives and SO’s of cross dressers who share the experience on some level tend to be very loyal partners. It might take a little time to get your arms around the idea of your partner walking around the house in lingerie, but since you are already invested in this relationship, what is the worst thing that can happen by giving it a shot? XO – Julia