Misty, I have seen more adds lately offering LGBT river cruises, so yes they are around. I myself would love to go on one and I would love my wife to go with me. We have talked for years of taking a river cruise so for me it would be a win win, but I’m not sure if she would do it or not, but I do know she would let me go by myself knowing how much it would mean to me. Part of my knowing this is because I came out to her 35 years ago, it hasn’t been easy but at least I don’t have to make up stories and I know what her limits are regarding my dressing. So I highly recommend your telling your wife and not try to pull off something as big as a cruise hoping she doesn’t find out. It’s a tough choice to make and only you can make that decision, I wish you well.