Reply To: Cursed or blessed? Could someone please pass me the manual – lol. Brissie, Oz

[Ally Syn]

Hi Lorraine, sorry I have not read them by now but working my way through the wealth of experience this site brings. I am struggling a little to navigate as each post is a topic, I have started using the search so hopefully I can starting finding the gems that help me come to grips with my personal dilemma. I am fortunate and don’t care what people think, so little stops me doing what I want to do, it just knowing what I want when that seems fluid. If anyone could help narrow down topics related to “why now”, “is this change going to change and which direction”, “gender fluid – best of both worlds or accept I will only be happy half the time?”, “am I a cross dresser or going through a midlife crisis”, “is cross dressing the life for me – check list of things to consider”. I do appreciate the huge amount people have posted and the 2 hours digesting and appreciating the guilt many have suffered in this community that I am finding myself calling my people, not me – absolutely no guilt, shame. Please let me know of any experiences relative else will keep meandering through.