For me it has always been a struggle to accept my feminine side. As a man, we are not supposed to like girly thongs or to get dressed up in lingerie or feminine clothes or like makeup ect. Society drills into our manly side that we are supposed to be rough n tuff. But when we dress, it feels so good and right. Then we feel guilty for enjoying be dressed up, and go tot the extreme manly side of us to offset our girly side.
It takes a lot of inner talk and support to get past all of this. Add more time for any negative comments and things out there to over come our shame and guilt. It will not happen over night. But our dressing is a part of who we are, and will never go away. It may change over time as to the extent of what and how you dress. For me, I have gone from just lingerie and lingerie to bed, to under dressing to a full wardrobe of clothes, makeup, jewelry, wigs, heels and forms. If you woudl have said I would be at this stage 5 or 10 or 30 years ago…I would have said no way. Guess i am checking to boxes of what feels right and good and experiencing those things that I have wanted to try.
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