Why did you proceed from the assumption that I am the one who is defective and should want to give you an explanation, but you are the one who’s totally ok, except you just have a couple of questions?
You ask why its so hard to stop, but you didn’t specify why it was so important that we do. Also not every relationship a crossdresser is involved in is by definition ‘at risk.’ It never has to be that way, except that there are people who have no other answer for themselves but to make it that way.
There’s nothing wrong with me. Or anyone else who doesn’t meet qualifications for wearing the wrong clothes. You want to know why I keep doing it? I found as much peace and happiness and kindness and friendship existing outside of this kind of ‘acceptance’ as I have seeking it. And life is too short to lose that. Yes, it stresses some close relationships, but just because I can’t fix that for someone else doesn’t mean they get to ruin it for me.
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