Reply To: First time out coming up

[Helen Hardy]

Thanks Kim, and I really appreciate your concerns. To be honest I’ve been dressing in secret for so long now I’m kind of past the stage where I feel guilty about keeping it secret from my wife.

I absolutely know, 100%, that if my wife found out it’s game over. I know for sure that its wrong to deceive her but on the other hand this is my personal thing and so I end up being stuck between a rock and a hard place. I guess there are many of us on here with the same dilemma.

In any event my chances to go out dressed will be very few. We are both retired so around together a lot of the time, and I’m very happy with that. The only chances I get are on the few occasions she goes away for a few days, and for the first time I’m resolved to take the chance.

Thanks again for being concerned, its very kind and thoughtful of you. I’ll let you know what happens!

Much love

Helen xx

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