Reply To: I think she knows

[Heather Smith]

I would think she certainly knows.   How could she not know assuming she is of at least average intelligence.  Is she setting you up for a DADT situation.  Not necessarily.  My wife sees me dressed every day (never with makeup or a wig).  I’ve only been CDing for 3+ years.  She has made it clear that she does not want to be with me if I go out dressed in public.  That’s fine.  I don’t want her to be uncomfortable.  I also rarely have gone out in public other than when I’ve been alone on an overnight trip out of town.

Why not simply ask her the next time she gets touchy feely on your shoulders or back why she feels it necessary to check to see if you’re wearing a bra.  Tell her you do daily and ask if she would like to talk about it.

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