Jill Quinn
Registered On: July 24, 2021
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Dear Susan,

As other girls have said, and I wholeheartedly agree, you need to see a good therapist. I read your profile but I can’t honestly say I know you. But what I can say in all honesty is this: Being a cross dresser DOES NOT make you a bad, nasty, horrible deviant of a person. Therefore , that should not make you feel so bad about yourself.

Until two years ago, I felt there was something wrong with me for having these desires, these feminine feelings. Hatred wasn’t at all what I felt towards myself, but I felt I was a sinner, a freak, that I must be a bad person to some extent. But that all changed one night two years ago.

Me and my wife were having a discussion about our sex life when I blurted out to her that I wanted to wear panties. The silence was deafening. She had no idea because I come across as a manly kind of guy. To her credit, she didn’t get upset or start name calling, instead, she asked plenty of questions including “Are you gay?” With the utmost honesty I answered her questions. Then she  helped me to understand myself, (damn she’s smart) to understand that I’m just a guy who loves to wear women’s clothing and that there is absolutely NOTHING WRONG with me for feeling this way. So, like the worthless trash those feelings were, I threw them out. No more shame, no more guilt. I’m a good, kind, caring person and my cross dressing brings me new feelings, feelings of joy, happiness, and relaxation. I hope you find the help you need very soon. You don’t deserve to feel so badly about yourself.

Lots of hugs, Jill❤️

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