I’d suggest you ask her again about the piercing and if she’s good with it, then go for it.
My wife was concerned that I might want to transition as well. She supports me very well, but she said that if I were to transition she doesn’t think she could do that. I think this is a very natural fear for a wife that she will completely loose the man she fell in love with.
I do know some couples where the “he” has transitioned to “she” and they have stayed together, but it can be a tough thing and not for everyone for sure.
This is very relevant to me, as it was my birthday last week and I did want to get my ears pierced for it. My wife had agreed to it but when I said I was going to actually have it done she got a bit anxious as she had planned to have a bunch of people over to celebrate it only some of which are in the know about Amy.
So I’ve postponed it for a little bit, and I wasn’t sure how she felt about it now, but tonight we were going through the local mall and she saw a place which advertises piercings and pointed it out to me! We went in and I chatted with the person a bit so she seems to be good with this now!
Amy
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