I kind of agree with your wife. I think her response is reasonable. It is not the ear piercing that is bothering her, it is the pushing the envelope and where will it end that is her worry. It is a reasonable worry. She married a man and expected to spend her life with that man. If she is worried that you want to transition then that is something she did not sign up for. It is perfectly possible to be a man and dress, the two are not mutually exclusive, transitioning is. Don’t get me wrong, it is possible to transition and keep a healthy relationship for some, but for others, it is a deal breaker.
This is a great example of the importance of couples communicating. She is worried about transitioning, which may be the last thing on your mind, or important to you. She does not know, and only you can tell her your thoughts. I think it is good you two are discussing such things
Personally, I would rather live in a truthful relationship than hide an important part of myself. Hopefully, you and your wife can do that and stay in a loving relationship.
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