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    Rei Durden
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    Registered On: October 11, 2020
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    When I returned home after work yesterday I had several packages awaiting me.

    -My very first 2 wigs

    -1 pair of faux leather pants

    -My first pair of B cup silicone breast forms

    There is such a wide variety of feelings and opinions on what makes us CD, whether it’s a fetish for pretty clothes, make up (and all that) or an outward expression of the lady inside, well, it’s a pretty broad spectrum to say the least.

    I don’t know where I fit (or if it even matters), but I do know one thing.

    When I put on the wig and fit my breast forms into my bra for the very first time today, I didn’t see a dude in the mirror playing dress up, (even with several days of stubble on my face) I saw Rei, and she is beautiful.

    Oh, to live in interesting times………

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    • #412001
      Lexie Trask
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      I’m not gonna sugar coat this…….waxing your nose hairs sounds incredibly painful, I can barely stand to tweeze them!

      Actually, the lady that did mine uses a “hard” wax. It really is not painful at all!
      The waxing of the body hair is like 50 times more painful than waxing the nose/ear hair!

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      Lexie Trask
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      While most of the time I shave every where, arms, legs, chest, abdomen, and even my feet oh and don’t forget the hands! I have started to use an epilator, and while it does hurt, after a few times, it’s not so bad. My biggest issue is shaving my back!

      I also found that if you use an epilator, it’s very important to use a high quality moisturizer!!!

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      • #411676
        Rei Durden
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        Lexie, it’s funny how everyone body reacts differently to epilating. I found any moisturizer causes me to break out, clogging the pores I guess. Come to think of it though, I haven’t tried out pure aloe Vera gel yet!

        I found that using an astringent such as witch hazel afterwards helped me though.

        I guess as your going solo, there must be some pretty extreme contortions reaching your middle back. Maybe a visit to a salon for a wax once this COVID is done is in order?!

         

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          Lexie Trask
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          I do have a shaver that has an attachment that allows a bit easier ability to shave my back. I just can’t see my back while I’m doing it, so I just do the best I can.

          I have had waxing, and am seriously considering going to a waxing salon to have my back and shoulders done. I also have my eyebrows waxed, and my nose hairs, and ear hairs waxed away also. I love having my eyebrows waxed and they look better afterwards. Not really feminine, you know a high arch, but definitely thinner!

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            Rei Durden
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            I’m not gonna sugar coat this…….waxing your nose hairs sounds incredibly painful, I can barely stand to tweeze them!

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      Patty Phose
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      The first time I dressed up fully en femme, was in shiny pantyhose, stiletto heels, very short dress, breastforms I made from balloons that I put in my bra and a long wavy, Daisy Duke style wig. When I looked in the mirror and saw a sexy, leggy girl with ample breasts and pretty hair looking back at me and realizing that girl was me, sent a rush of thrill and excitement through me like I never felt or experienced before.

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        Rei Durden
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        I’m getting a rush just reading your description Patty, just beautiful!

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          Patty Phose
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          Thanks Rei. I’m blushing

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      Robyn Devine
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      That’s so awesome Robyn, it’s such a wonderful feeling to see and love yourself and have that sense of “this is right, THIS is me!”

      I suspect you’ll make a trip out before too long, (no pressure) but it seems like that next step is practically shouting at you!

       

      Your right on that!  It was shouting at me.  It wont be too long.  😁💃

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      Robyn Devine
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      Rei

      I can totally relate to you on this!  Just last weekend I finally got my first wig and forms.  Did my makeup and dressed up, buts when you put the wig on the first time and go

      **GASP** 😲

      Wait…thats ME!!  At first you cant believe who your looking at!  Then you DO realize how gorgeous you are…AND its amazing!!

      And as Rachel said below…you’ll wanna walk out into the world.  No lie…I almost got in the car to go…who knows where…but damn near went out.

      Those 2 things – wig and forms – are game changers.  It ties everything together!

      xo – Robyn 🤗❤️💃

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      • #408944
        Rei Durden
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        That’s so awesome Robyn, it’s such a wonderful feeling to see and love yourself and have that sense of “this is right, THIS is me!”

        I suspect you’ll make a trip out before too long, (no pressure) but it seems like that next step is practically shouting at you!

         

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      Autumn Valiant
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      I got a lovely tip from a drag queen regarding wigs; She said to use hair shine spray.

      It makes a real difference, especially after you’ve worn and washed your wig(s) a few times, and they start looking a bit lifeless.

      I’m using this shampoo and spray for washing, https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B006P0H6UG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_n6ENFb354BE7N?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 and this spray for a little boost to the shine for going out https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B005LHTCR4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_s3ENFbDZBDZSJ?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

      I remember well my first wig, and the first time I tried forms. I don’t feel properly dressed without either these days!

      Love Laura

       

       

       

      we really need a bookmark tool…….

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      Jasmine Secrét
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      Congratulations!!!

       

      I recently shaved the remaining body part..my arms.  I’m now completely hairless, except eyebrows/eyelashes

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      • #408143
        Regine Kelly
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        My wife is asking me to shave my arms, and my beard, so,,, soon,lol

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      • #402807
        Rei Durden
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        I haven’t taken that step……yet. I’m just sticking with long sleeve shirts when I’m enfemme. Oh those man arms! Lol

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      when i got my beast forms it made a big difference. looks sexy and gives you more conferident. open that door and walk out into the world and never look back. you havent seen high on life yet.

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    • #402370
      Samantha Roarke
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      pink fog rollin’ in!

      -SR-

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    • #401344
      Deborah Sullivan
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      Now you will be addicted for life and that is a good thing. You go girl

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      Diane Rakers
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      Very happy for you Rei.

      I’m surprised by your feelings. Pretty special.

      Another step into womanhood.

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      PY Marshall
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      That’s great Rei , and to have the look completed by two very special makeup artists! you have been blessed, enjoy. Py .

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    • #401237
      Seren
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      Yay 😀
      Go Rei !!!

       

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      Paula F
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      It is amazing to see ‘that guy’ disappear to be replaced by the real you, finally.  It never gets old either.  Enjoy it each and every time it happens.

      PaulaF

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      • #401201
        Rei Durden
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        Hi Paula!

        While my daughter and wife were doing my make up tonight (first time) I made sure they took lots of pictures but I didn’t want to see until the transformation was done.
        Shocked hardly sums it up! Flabbergasted! Lol

        Is it really possible to feel that awe every time Rei  emerges? I feel so grateful and lucky.

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      Maria Pink
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      Hi Rei,

      So glad you are able to finally see Rei as she is supposed to be. That happened to me as well when I put on my forms and wig the first time also. I couldn’t stop staring in the mirror. I started to feel complete. Keep it up!

       

      Maria

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      • #401200
        Rei Durden
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        Maria, thank you!
        I am finding it hard to sit still and not run to the mirror every couple of minutes.
        How does that saying go? “You don’t know what you don’t know” but I guess deep down some part of me always knew what was required.

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      Olivia Livin
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      So happy for you Rei

      Even when I first started with the silicone bra enhancers it made such a difference in my phsychy, and after I upgraded to full forms….oh boy. When we get ‘it’ right, no matter what our ‘it’ is, we glow!

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      • #401198
        Rei Durden
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        Thank you Olivia, I guess that GLOW is what’s coursing through my veins even as I type this.
        It’s sad but the only time I’ve felt ‘high’ like this is under the influence of alcohol/and or drugs.
        So THIS is what feeling high on life feels like!

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      Laura Lovett
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      I got a lovely tip from a drag queen regarding wigs; She said to use hair shine spray.

      It makes a real difference, especially after you’ve worn and washed your wig(s) a few times, and they start looking a bit lifeless.

      I’m using this shampoo and spray for washing, https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B006P0H6UG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_n6ENFb354BE7N?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 and this spray for a little boost to the shine for going out https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B005LHTCR4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_s3ENFbDZBDZSJ?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

      I remember well my first wig, and the first time I tried forms. I don’t feel properly dressed without either these days!

      Love Laura

       

       

       

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        Rei Durden
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        Thank you so much for the great tips and advice Laura, saves me the trouble of asking all you fine ladies for help!

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      How superb Rei

      I love it that you seem so happy, it’s wonderful when you put on forms for the first time, I bet you hated taking the off…..or have you ??

      What colour and style of wigs did you get?? I have lots, I see a new style and get it, but I never seem to throw any away???….very addictive…

      Grace 💋💋

       

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        Rei Durden
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        It actually was disappointing to remove them for a little while but as soon as I could, back on again.

        One wig is a medium golden brown and the other is a light auburn, styles………medium length, layered, supposed to be a good fit for my looooooong face.

        My youngest daughter and my wife did my make up for me tonight so I could enjoy the entire experience on Hallowe’en.

        There’s only been a few times in my life where I’ve been this happy Grace. I know it’s just superficial/skin deep, but until tonight, there’s never been a time where I liked what I saw in the mirror or the camera.

        This could become a habit……..

        • #401245
          Anonymous
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          Honey..you wrote…

           

          “There’s only been a few times in my life where I’ve been this happy”

          ….isn’t that exactly why we do this beautiful thing we do…and it’s not superficial or skin deep……it’s in your heart!!!

          lastly, it WILL become a habit, and I love your profile pic….grace 💋💋

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    • #401093
      Regine Kelly
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      That is just awesome Rei,you go girl.
      Hugs,Regine

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