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Just for fun, what would be on your “10 signs you could be a crossdresser” list.
Went to pay at the grocery store – left my credit card in my purse – again!!
You know your shoe size – in male and female sizing
Checking out the weather girl on TV – I wonder if I can get that top in my size
If you have (or had) a secret stash of clothes…
ok, that’s 4 now your turn…
Ten Signs I Could Be A Crossdresser
10. So jealous of Vanna White and want her job
9. Think back fondly to all the those times when I was younger and allowed cousins to dress me up. 8. Always wished I could have played with the girls 7. So jealous of GNO and want to be with them
6. Dream of having been a flower girl or bridesmaid. 5. Wanted To attend bridal or baby showers in a pretty dress. 4. Look at GGs and believe I am prettier then them 3. Want to wear dresses more than my wife 2. Hate the limitations of male clothing and love all the options women have 1. Have more women’s clothing, shoes, makeup and jewelry than my wife and daughters.Skimming through the late night tv chat channels simply to view the pretty lingerie.
Getting asked by friends wives to go see Sex and the City films with them as their husbands not interested… We had a blast !! 😊😊🌹
Spending more time in your 4″ heels than your SO does in her 3″
Ordering a bra and knowing your exact chest size but having a huge debate as to cup size – the one you want or the one you know would probably look better.
Wanting badly to apply some of that perfume you just bought but knowing you’ll never get all of it off in time for that dinner party you have to attend in a few hours.
1. Watching the newsreaders on tv observing and thinking if their outfit be good on me and colours fit right
2. As watching thinking you girl lower or raise your hem as some man will exploit you !!
3. My wife shops in the lingerie dept i compare with hers what i am wearing underneath and think thats not for her but more for me
4. when watching a man lead the woman onto the dance floor that i would allow him to as maybe not my type, and if so for me to be that girl and look adoringly in to his eyes and hold him tight.
5. time for superheroes to wear fishnets and leather when saving the world should they ever get changed and wash their garments
6. sob and weep more during chic flicks and enjoy it unlike when a man and confused why… i now understand the joy of crying in a chick flick..my heart pounds with the girl.
7. watching cook programs dont put too much butter sugar in as will put inches on ones body and ruin the wardrobe….
Another just popped into my head , watching fashion documentaries etc & having to explain to my wife who the likes of Tom Ford , Anna Wintour , Alexander McQueen etc are…..
Mind you she’ll watch a homeshow and tell me how a house is constructed 😏😏😏
1: Watching gangs of girls going out nightclubbing in the winter barelegged and thinking 1) Aren’t they cold? and 2) If I was one of them I would definitely wearing tights/ pantyhose
2: Checking out the women of my age(60) to see what they are wearing and comparing my taste as against theirs.Must say that nine out of ten times my impressions are always favourable.
3: Wondering what the ladies I used to work in would think if they knew that I was a crossdresser.Would they be shocked? or delighted
4: Not beimg offended if a guy or a lady mistakes me for a woman and calls me madam ( because I have naturally curly hair) or refers to me or my wife as girls .
5:When I go for a haircut and the hairdresser tells me that I have lovely curly hair and many women would kill and want to pay many pounds to have my locks.
6: Listening to ladies talk about clothes on public transport and wishing I could join them.
7: Wanting to ask a lady where she bought her lovely outfit from but afraid to for fear of it creeping her out.
8:Asking my wife how old she was when she got her first pair of adult tights/ pantyhose.She is supportive of my crossdressing.She gets this sort of question quite frequently.
9:If I knew a young adult crossdresser I would want to be a a mother figure to her
10:If I see any articles about crossdressers or transfolk in a newspaper or online I just have to read it.
Mmmmm great topic DeLora
Here’s a few….lipstick and nail polish in the bathroom next to “his” razor.
panties and bra’s in the bedroom draws on top of ” his” ties and belts.
High heels and ankle boots lined up in the hall where ” his ” shoes once were
The bedroom ” strangely” smells of perfume !!
Pink onesie covered in hearts hangs on the back of the bathroom door.
Shopping list hung on kitchen door starts ” pantie liners, nail polish remover, ……..
Your “previous orders” list on Amazon looks like a teenage girl has stolen mummy’s credit card…..twice!!!!!
…..I could just go on and on…
Huggs, grace 💋💋
1. Wearing your mothers or sisters clothes at an early age.
2.Trying on and experimenting with their makeup at an early age.
3. Wearing what is considered traditional female Halloween costumes more than one year.
4.Waiting in anticipation for the current month’s Glamour and Cosmopolitan magazines to arrive.
5.Waiting for the newest Venus Clothing Catalog to arrive.
6. Purchasing you first set of high heels.
7. Checking out you tube on how to best walk in high heels.
8. Purchasing your own bra, panties, hose and outfits.
9.Fully dressing as a female in private and wondering what it would be like to go out.
10, Going out in public fully dressed as a female and embracing the experience.
Ten signs you could be a crossdresser:
1. Getting issues of W Magazine from friends and clip out styles for your own personal “Lookbook”
2. Watching “Style with Elsa Klensch” religiously on weekly basis first run and re-run and recording episodes on VHS
3. Looking thru women’s fashion magazines in the Doctors waiting room.
4. Accepting you girlfriends offer to apply mascara and eyeliner on you before you go out.
5. Wanting to wear skirts all the time, even as a guy.
6. Wearing high heel boots, as a guy.
7. Wanting to rid your body of hair from the face down to the toes.
8. Grow your fingernails as long as you can and get away with it.
9. Wanting to wear bikinis instead of boxers.
10. Wearing wedge heel shoes, as a guy
I have and continue to do these ten and more wherever and whenever I can.
And Thanks for the other signs listed before and after my reply
When I wake ever morning and realise I am morphing into Amanda’s world everyday, and my male mode is being mentally aligned to play a minor role, controlled by my desire to be just Amanda who likes to CD as a male now and again. I have to be honest I love Amanda and all the associated femininity it brings right across the spectrum.
Thought of a couple that happen pretty regularly to me…
should I worry about my panties colour coordinating with my corset today??
Can I stealth my corset under this shirt ok??
when folding laundry asking why they can’t make a bra as cute as the one my wife or daughter wears that would fit me??
nope… no pantylines under these cute jeans!!
- Have a wardrobe with more womens clothing than male clothing
- and more than your SO
- Know your women shoe/clothes size better than your male sizes
- Look at women and wonder how you would look in that outfit
- Walk better heels way higher than your SO (and many other women)
- Wondering what female thing (clothes/hair/jewellery/…) you can wear in male mode and get away with
- Slowly sneak in more and more female stuff to push the border.
- Look for women of similar age/build as you to see what outfit they have/
- Spend way to much time and money on shopping for female stuff.
- Realise that the worst part of the day is when you have to take off your female clothes.
Above is all true for me
/kt
You just might be a solitary closeted crossdresser when ……..
1.) your underwear drawer now contains so many panties, you have trouble finding your jockey shorts
2.) the term “Pink Fog” is less of a meteorological anomaly and more of a state of mind
3.) at home you pee sitting down, even in drab, through force of habit
4.) underdressing has become about as satisfying as water and dry crackers for lunch; you always desire the “full femme” experience
5.) you’ve learned to walk in 4in stilettos so well they’ve become your femme shoes of choice
6.) you’ve become so used to buttons on the left side that it’s become second nature to you
7.) wearing a bra without silicone forms makes you feel painfully “unfulfilled”
8.) you spend far too much time in front of the mirror futzing with your hair (wig)
9.) on laundry day every over-the-door hook has lingerie of every type and description hanging from it, air drying
10.) discovering a run in your pantyhose is much more annoying than finding a hole in a pair of your man socks
And one for lagniappe.
11.) Logging in to CDH in the evening, while en femme, is the highlight of your day[postquote quote=394257]
O.M.G.A similar thing happened to me once.One of the guys from my office saw me looking in the window of a ladieswear store.He wasn’t a friend but he was well acauainted with some of my friends.Luckily my wife worked in same office as me.I think he probably knew her by site and thought perhaps that I was waiting for her outside when she was in there.When I am served by a very pleassnt S.A in a store I hope that they secretly know that the femme stuff I buy is for me.This doesn’t happen these days now that my wife buys my ladies clothes for me.
When I am “dressed” and fully made up in anticipation of going to a bar or lounge that has dancing, I need to remind myself that before accepting an invitation to dance from a male, where do I put my hands and let him lead. Fast dances (as opposed to close-up slow dance music) are far easier. Of course, probably not a good idea to let him swing you around or go into a deep dip and risk having you wig go flying across the dance floor!
Hi Delora…………so possible signs is seeing a pretty flower , wanting to pick it and wear it in your hair…….. Spending time around the womens clothing section, checking out the clothes and studying the manniquins as teaching aids on how to dress when your true mission was to get some socks and t-shirts……… When seeing a pretty women, instead of wanting to flirt with her, you want to be that women…….. When talking to a woman, your mind is thinking of how to fit in a question of where she got a particular piece of clothing or accessory because you want to wear it……… When combing your hair, for a second or two, you imagine a guy caressing it as you submit to his desires…………when listening to women talking amongst themselves, you pay attention to tone , subject matter and body language instead of dismissing it as girls yakking away……………..when getting into or out of a car, you swing your legs together as if you are wearing a short skirt. When wearing shorts you do this and feel so girly……………………….karley
my top 10′
1) sheading a tear when reading or watching a sad movie.
2) having over 40 bottles of nail polish
3) looking for bargains when shopping
4) getting a pedicure every month
5) perfer pink clothes over blue ones
7) wearing underwear (male goes commando. female side likes thongs)
8) go straight to the skirt section when i go shopping
9) wishing i had a flat stomach like that young girl
10) getting my ears and bellybutton pierced
11) my laundry pile is mostly girl clothes
12) wondering if this top matches this bottom
13) going out in public and turning heads
14) walking in heels better than male shoes
15) remembering to take off all my female gear before leaving the house in male mode
16) listening to woman talk about shoes and other women stuff and know what they are talking about
17) buy womens clothes every week when i havent bought mans clothes in 20 years
18) watching a young couple holding hand or kissing and thinking how sweet
19) watching a woman wear a thong bikini on the beach and thinking i can do that (and i did)
20) going out in public and not giving a f@*k what anyone thinks
it took me about 5 minutes to write this. sure i probably left some out.
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