7 Steps for Venturing Out: Shoes

I wore women’s shoes for years in hiding within my house until one day, something snapped, and I was outside in girly footwear. I know I overthinked it, but in case this helps build your confidence as you venture out:

Step 1) wear a pair of women’s sneakers or flip flops. Black won’t be noticed, other subtleties too won’t either. Many cheap brands will pass.

Step 2) wear black flats, round toe, closed toe, with matching thigh highs or socks. Wear with long pants for a hardly noticeable look. The combination will look like men’s footwear.

Step 3) wear black, tan, brown flats with nude sheer thigh highs, or no hosiery. Wear long pants or walk behind a shopping cart for concealment.

Step 4) wear black, tan, brown low heel or wedge sandals. Long pants help conceal.

Step 5) repeat step 2, but with closed toe pumps, block or thick heel. Wear shorts to be more visible, wear a dress or skirt for full attention.

Step 6) repeat step 3, vary with pointed toe flats, different colors, bold colors.

Step 7) heels again, but in bolder colors, stilettos, shoes that scream sexy. Start with shorts, graduate to skirts and dresses. Act confident, you got this girl!

Celebrate every step achieved!!!!!