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    Regine Rich
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    Registered On: October 9, 2020
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    I took a big step, for me, this week, and it turned out so well.
    A little explanation.
    My wife has personal care workers come in every day, while I am at work, and she has become good friends with both of them. She asked me a couple weeks back, if I was ok with her talking with one, about my cd’ing, as this worker knows my family, and this was a personal thing. she really needed to discuss her feelings with someone other than myself. Oh, and no one else knows
    After thinking about it, for a week or 2, I said go ahead, but stress my privacy.
    well, she had “the conversation”, on Monday, and the girl was of course curious, but very supportive, and honoured that I would agree to share this with her. She asked several times how I looked, as she has always known me as a very “manly” man, so I put 5 or 6 pictures on a flash drive, to show her.
    Her responses made my head swell,
    “she is gorgeous”
    “oh my god, she is beautiful, and look at those legs”
    ” why does she look so good, and look at me, I’Ve been a woman my whole life”
    She wants very much to meet Regi, and even asked if the 3 of us could go out together, for coffee, or dinner, or shopping, her words” we can all get dolled up pretty and go out”
    I know my wife has always said I looked good, but to hear it from another lady, was such an affirmation,, my heart swelled, and I just had to share
    Hugs, big headed Regi💕💕

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      Jamie Peridot
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      Registered On: February 19, 2021
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      A very courageous step!! Glad it went beyond expectations! Hugs!

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      Alice Underwire
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      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Regi,

      What a giant leap!  So glad to hear things went so positive.  With so much on your wife’s mind her conversation with the health worker must have been a tremendous uplift for her too.

      Alice

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      Beth Green
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      Registered On: February 24, 2021
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      Wow! Sharing can be such a frightening challenge but this turned out tremendously well. Regine now has a new girlfriend! Now it’s a real girls club for going out and about.

      💖

      Beth

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      LisaT
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      Registered On: January 31, 2021
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      Well done you.

      I think the best decision I made was to accept that my partner needed someone to talk to when I came out to her. Looking back at the difference it made to me to be able to talk to her how coul£ I not have let her share her concerns with a friend. It sounds very much as though it has worked fo4 you too but most of all your partner now has a confidant to support her. Well done

      Hugs

      Lisa xxx

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      Krista
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      Hi Regine, That would be a big step for me as well.  I’m always looking to expand the number of people with whom I can talk in-person about being a CD.  My SO doesn’t really want me to tell others else I certainly would.  I’m a bit envious of the great support your wife demonstrates.  That is so wonderful.  Good luck with your shopping/coffee trip with the gals; make sure to write about it for us.  All the Best, Hugs, Krista.

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        Regine Rich
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        Registered On: October 9, 2020
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        Thank you, Krista, I am moving forward, lol. Shaved my face today for the first time in 47? years, I dont recognize myself, but at least now I do look more fem.👩
        Hugs, Regi💕

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      Regine Rich
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      Thank you, Ashley, I do, and its wonderful💕

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      Ashley Konners
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      Registered On: August 15, 2020
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      Sounds great that you have more support hun!  I know it helps me.
      Ashley

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