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- August 21, 2019 at 3:21 am #210490
All of my life I like many of you could tell that their was something different about myself . Like me you knew there was something different than most of the other boys that you knew at the time. Maybe it took you awhile to figure out that you were more like a girl than a boy. You liked the clothes girls wore better than the ones you were wearing, you wanted to play with baby dolls and skip rope and all the other things that all the girls were doing. And you were so miserable because when you did do any of those things the other boys made fun of you and called you names like sissy and you wondered why you felt this way. Surely their had to be something wrong with you, none of the other boys acted like you, so it was you that was defective. Than as time went on you learned to hide yourself and to protect that side of you. Now fast forward to the present I have something I need to say and also something to ask all of my Beautiful Sisters out there and please search you memory banks for the answer to this one. When I was around Eight years old my Mother took me to the doctors for some test and at that time they discovered that my body was barley producing any testosterone , well I didn’t know what that meant at the time but all thru my life every time I was tested for whatever , my parents had that checked and it was always the same low T and I continued to get that checked. Now they do it to all men when you get tested for whatever they do a markup . Well I have decided that because my body has never produced enough “T” that I was probably a girl or at least were more girl than boy at birth . I don’t think that sounds to crazy but I could be wrong, (doubtful). So this is the question Do you know or feel if there is anything in your medical history that would account for your femininity or your need to crossdress.
- August 21, 2019 at 3:52 am #210495
Some hormonal imbalances runs within my mom’s side of the family. Also my sister has it. A cousin of my mom’s was born intersexed. Assigned male at birth but started a female puberty and transitioned to female in the 1950s. So I guess there may well be some underlying medical reasons to that I have identified myself as at least partly a girl since I was about six years old and now is looking into transitioning at age 54.
- This reply was modified 4 years ago by Marianne.
- August 24, 2019 at 4:32 am #211976
Hi Marianne I think your on to some thing there with your family history. The answer is somewhere in our family genetic history. If we could look back into our history and the family members acted and dressed the way they really felt I believe we would see people that were alot like us. Confused with their gender. I am not sure what change is happening at or around age six or seven that seems to be a very comman age that alot of us first recognized something was wrong. .Why is it so many of us feel so intensely that it is time to finally give in to those feelings in our 50’s and 60’s. Are we just tired of fighting it.. I never checked my hormone levels when i was 30 or 40 . I believe that my testosterone levels have something to do with my feelings of wanting to be more feminate in my 60’s.. Luv Stephanie
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- August 25, 2019 at 3:31 pm #212807
I answered no. When I was in my 30s I almost committed suicide. I saw a psychologist for awhile and as a result I remembered things that happened earlier in my life. It gave me a lot of insight of myself. It didn’t give me a clear answer, but I thought even if I did get that answer what would it change? I think so many of us are looking for reasons, but when you find out, will you stop or go further? My keyword is balance and that has helped me live my life.
- August 21, 2019 at 4:02 am #210503Anonymous
In the 50s women were given a hormone to prevent miscarriage. My mother took this hormone and I believe that has some effect on in utero development. There is some reasearch to support this.
Also, as we age are hormone levels change and I believe this to has had an effect on my accelerated desire to cross dress
Lastly, I just like it so that plays a big role. Love dresses, skirts, shoes, undergarments, makeup and in general, anything soft and feminine.
hugggz Annie
- August 22, 2019 at 8:58 am #211047
In 1947, my mother took DES when pregnant with me. The powerful female hormone drug was meant to help avoid spontaneous abortion. As a result, I was bathed in this extra female hormone all during gestation. At age 1 1/2 my right testicle was removed after a tumor formed on it.
Women and men who were exposed to this drug have, in adulthood, developed tumors n their sex organs – men get testicle cancer and women are getting vaginal and ovarian cancer.
My therapist agrees that this may have had an effect on my brain development that has left me with a more female sense of being. I believe Crossdressing is an expression of my feminine leaning brain. It’s the old law of unintended consequences. Saving a pregnancy leaves a guy feeling more female and needing to express that with a strong desire to wear female clothes and emulate female behavior.
- August 24, 2019 at 1:22 am #211960Anonymous
Hi Kathy , I’ve often wondered about any connections with DES & trans issues , Tiff
- August 21, 2019 at 8:13 am #210589Anonymous
I had no medical history, growing up; but in hindsight, I had no “masculine” traits, and most of my playmates and companions were girls. In my early 60s, clinical tests did show low T and low thyroid. The crossdressing urge – compulsion, actually – is a recent thing which I’m convinced is hormonal and a result of medications. They also caused me to grow breasts (small, but still breasts).
- August 21, 2019 at 8:58 am #210598
This is such a great question. I always say that each of us is our own science experiment. We all have a unique chemical balance. This balance changes as we age. For men that means a reduction in testosterone. If we started low we probably liked all things feminine. As we age this feeling becomes irresistible. We may cross dress or transition.
For women aging results in a reduction in estrogen so their testosterone becomes more pronounced. That’s why women may become more assertive as they age and men become less aggressive.
- August 23, 2019 at 2:10 am #211394
Dear Jennifer, I believe you are right we are all a bunch of forward thinking women or (men) but you have also brought some wonderful aspects to this. Thank you this question has been on my mind for years and now I am in the company of some awesome people who also have such thoughts. Maybe I am not so loony after all. Big Hugs Girlfriend your awesome, Coral
- August 21, 2019 at 9:46 am #210629Anonymous
Had a brain hemmorage about 6 years ago and went through a battery of tests and everything except my adrenaline was fine. I don’t know about medical but I do believe it’s in our genes, this is the way were made.
- August 21, 2019 at 10:20 am #210652
Throughout my life I’ve been masculine and my Crossdressing began as a fetish in my teens. The urge has come and gone throughout my life, with long stretches without any urges. Now in my late 50s the urge has returned stronger than ever. This coincides with a significant reduction in my testosterone levels which is normal.
I believe my resumption of dressing at this stage of my life is due at least in part to being predisposed in combination with low T. These are not the only factors – I think there’s a bit of midlife crisis in the mix as well, as dressing makes me look and feel younger and to extent more alive. An escape from my conventional and at time boring life as an overweight balding man.
Hey, as many have said, it’s complicated!
- August 21, 2019 at 1:18 pm #210752
I was the youngest of 3 boys all my life my mom would tell me or introduce me as this is my son he was supposed to be a girl. So I started trying to become a girl for her it didn’t work. I know my mom loved me but it sure messed with my head. Now I just love women’s clothes
- August 21, 2019 at 4:32 pm #210852Anonymous
i am a middle child (older brother younger sister) who always felt different. as a child i always walked on my tip toes and my mother often said i should have been born a girl, i always tried hard to be the boy, played all the sports while never the best player i was also never the worst.
i always wanted to wear my sisters party dresses and became a great actor with a macho profile that hid who i really was, i believe my crossdressing and female traits are biological.
- August 23, 2019 at 1:55 am #211392
<p style=”–original-color: #333333; –original-background-color: #ffffff;”> Well Geselle, That’s two of us, one more and we could start a movement. Hugs Coral</p>
- August 21, 2019 at 8:56 pm #210933
I chose “No Not at all.” I don’t know for sure, but I believe my penchant for crossdressing may be more psychological than medical. Or are they the same thing?
True, my “T” is now low, maybe more like no “T”. But thousands of men have low “T” and they don’t xdress. Except for one very brief occurrence in my pre-teen years, I went for decades afterwards with nary a thought about crossdressing – thru my military years, thru college, and thru the early years of my career.
The urge came upon me for some still-unknown reason some years into my first (and only) marriage, in my late 30’s. Shamefully, I found myself with this unwanted but irresistible lingerie fetish. My ex-wife was a ballet instructress, and her dresser drawers were loaded with dance leotards, ballet tights, dance girdles, etc., and I indulged myself at every opportunity. I never revealed this fetish to her, and I don’t think she ever knew.
After the divorce 20+ years ago, as I aged, I evolved into the simple, no-frills, closeted crossdresser that I am today, with virtually no remaining erotic stimulus. The object of my dressing is the dressing itself.
So, I don’t believe that my dressing results from some quirk in my genome, or too little or too much of some hormone. However, I don’t quite consider myself a “normal” male, either, and I’m sure Freud would have a field day figuring me out.
- August 23, 2019 at 1:50 am #211391
<p style=”–original-color: #333333; –original-background-color: #ffffff;”> Thank you Camryn for your thoughts you also bring up another aspect of this topic, all I know is I would love to find out if this the case for me and if I knew before I moved on to the next after would be very nice. Coral</p>
- October 10, 2019 at 4:09 pm #233832Anonymous
Camryn,
There is a body of thought in the medical profession which says everything is chemistry, including mental disorders – which is NOT to say you have one. If you do, so do we all.
With 20/20 hindsight, I can now see that I had a strong feminine side in my youth and earlier adulthood, which except for a couple of times, was totally suppressed. It also explains, among other things, how it happened that my wife was the one who proposed. Over the past 3 years (more or less), age has lowered my T, while diet and medications have raised estrogens…and here I am, totally immersed in CD life.
So, I will have to disagree with your estimate of yourself; just an opinion, and unprovable, but there it is.
- August 23, 2019 at 2:25 am #211395
<p style=”–original-color: #333333; –original-background-color: #ffffff;”>Marianne, Thank you I think this has been a great topic. I believe one day we will know, it only makes sense to me I can’t see that when someone has feelings from a very tender age like these that it is just a thought, to me their has to be a better explanation as to why we feel this way. Surely it does not come out of thin air. Love you all for taking the time to take the poll and also discuss this, Coral</p>
- August 24, 2019 at 12:14 am #211957
I selected “Yes Very strongly” because I believe it to be a fact. I’ve shared this before. Many years ago I finally accepted my overwhelming passion for satin and my feminine lingerie needs via the now long gone but fantastic MSN Crossdresser chat room. We were discussing our thoughts on this very subject when a familiar gurl chatter joined in. She/he was a very established surgeon and closeted crossdresser. Many time she had shared her professionalism with the chat room. We were informed that when first conceived in our mother’s womb we are 100% female. Our gender is determined as we develop and grow in the womb. Sometimes, as has been noted previously, there is an internal mix up with our genes and chromosomes. Most of the time when the fetus develops its male anatomy it has the proper distribution of male genes to overcome the female genes it was conceived with. When the g & c’s get mixed up we end up with many possible results such as; deformities, having both a vagina and a penis, being fully female but with male equipment or visa versa (these are our GRS / sex change brothers and sisters) and those of us who are 100% male looking but are different inside because we have stronger feminine genes than male ones!
While this is a known condition within some of the Medical community there is no medical solution to it. The Dr. told us “you are what you are and it will never change!” What a load of guilt and self punishment drained from me when she/he made that statement. I’ve brought it up with a few other MD’s who researched it and are in complete agreement with what we heard.
I know my passion for satin is the direct result of my Mom wanting me to be a girl as her 2nd and last child. She told everyone that only baby girl things were wanted for her baby showers. I was also told she took, ate and did everything possible to be sure I’d be her baby girl named Roberta. All my baby pictures I’m dressed in pretty satin baby girl dresses. This until I was starting school and Dad told her to get me into little boy clothes!
s
- August 24, 2019 at 1:24 am #211961Anonymous
Hi Coral , my parents were told that they were having a daughter even had a name selected ( I’m unaware of that name ), I was born in late 60’s so don’t know if this was common mistake then , thanks Tiff
- August 25, 2019 at 1:00 am #212556Anonymous
I answered yes somewhat, all my life I’ve been a sickly child in and out of hospital with one childhood illness after another, i wasn’t a very sporty type of boy i wasn’t even good at any kind of sport, I’ve always found it easier to talk with women than men, I’ve never been tested for low T before or i don’t think i have, all i do know is the older i get the more my feminine side is getting stronger x hugs Rozalyne x
- August 25, 2019 at 6:23 am #212621
I can totally relate thank you for sharing!!
- August 25, 2019 at 12:31 pm #212766
I just don’t know, but I think that there must be something medical to this, deeper than a fetish. Perhaps it depends on the person as well.
Coral, I have never felt like I was born as the wrong sex, as there are many things I liked about being a boy. That said, I still didn’t really fit in with most of the other boys, and did dress up with my Mom’s stuff in the age range about 11-14. When I was old enough to be left on my own in the house, then I started experimenting with wearing women’s things, but don’t know what started me searching for undies to wear.
Now I’m 65, I am so smitten with dressing up, it’s kind of scary. My doctor recently tested me for testosterone, and I’m right at the very bottom of the normal range. The thing is, I’ve never been tested for that before, so we have no baseline to compare it to, but I bet I’m lower than I used to be, and that’s why my femme side is getting stronger. I have not told my doctor about this, and unless it becomes necessary, I don’t think that I will. There is wide range of what is considered “normal”, so who knows where I am now, compared to say 10 or 20 years ago.
There are treatments for low testosterone, but they have other risks, so I don’t know whether I would take any or not. Besides, I love dressing up sooo much, and don’t want to stop!
Amy
- August 25, 2019 at 2:31 pm #212797Anonymous
Hi, Amy. There is a school of thought in the mental health field that believes it’s ALL about chemistry; so you are probably right, and I feel the same way. I never had access to girls’ clothes while growing up, so who knows how it might have triggered something if I had.
My CD urge also came on strong and suddenly, with advanced age. I did have a low-T diagnosis several years ago, while searching for my low-energy problem. Took weekly shots for a time, but you can’t do that forever. I really think that medications taken for other problems (Finasteride, among others) has a lot to do with the upsurge in my desire to CD. Can’t stop the meds, nor do I want to. As you said, dressing feels so good.Hugs,
Bettylou
- August 26, 2019 at 7:13 pm #213373
I believe that most of our psyches result from both nature and nurture. For me, the cross dressing derived mostly from nurture, in this context, experiential occurrences. As I’ve noted in replies to other topics, I do not feel I am female nor do I want to be. Most of my sexuality developed from early childhood “medical training.” When those activities ceased as we outgrew them, wearing my mom’s girdles and pantyhose served as a substitute. I can’t rule out a genetic or biological factor, but I don’t think it was a big one for me.
- August 27, 2019 at 1:17 am #213432
I first knew I was a cross dresser is when I touched my first pair of women’s panties. I slipped them on and got a good rush. I done that for a while in secret, after time I started putting on other types of clothing, bras, stockings, dress and heels. It was so magical, I felt so free.
- August 29, 2019 at 2:34 am #214547
For a very long time, I had no clue why I was how I was. The only thing I really knew was that I liked it, how dressing made me feel inside (as well as the naughty feelings outside too). I really never questioned it, but I kept it hidden for so long.
Several years later, I was enrolled in the local Jr College and was taking an Anatomy and Physiology class. One day our instructor was telling us about some of the physical differences internally between male and female, aside from the obvious breasts, penis/testicles vs clitoris/vagina/uterus/ovaries (be careful there, women have men 2 to 1 in those parts). He showed us MRI images of male and female brains. One of the more noticeable differences was the gap between the two hemispheres. The male brain showed a gap of 2 -3 mm, while the female showed less than 2 mm. He did tell us that some of structure of the brain was pretty much the same across the board except for just a couple of areas, and even these were not 100% accurate either.
Fast forward several years, and I fell at work and hit my head very hard. I ended up having an MRI and CT that day in the ER. When the doc came in with the images to show that I did not have a concussion, a little light went on in my head, remembering that A&P class, and I asked him if the gap looked a little narrow to him. He measured it and said it was a little narrow at just under 2 mm, but showed me again that there were no abnormalities present.
At home afterwards I thought about it for a while, and I think that just maybe, this might show why I am so comfortable in my femme self and have never felt guilt or any other negative emotions toward my dressing and presenting as femme.
Maybe T.J. or Bobbie could shed a little light on this?
Paula
- August 29, 2019 at 11:06 am #214777
As old as I am, I can remember that I always knew that my feelings about my gender was different from that which I assumed others felt. I was 12 in 1959 and no one outside of academia used “gender.” As I came into puberty, like many young men, I was overwhelmed with my budding sexuality. For some reason I was drawn to belts and wore them furtively with the buckle on the side and my jean slung low, but under a tee shirt so my family did not see. I had an aunt who lived with us for a time. She worked in a women’s apparel shop and thus wore high heels and fashionable dresses, many with fancy patent and leather belts that emphasized her waist. I found her outfits very compelling, to say the least, but I do not remember that “she” turned me on as much as her outfits. I later learned that shoes and belts are often fetish items. When I was “turned-on” I could feel the tingling associated with orgasm without an erection or emission. Maybe many of my feelings were normal for puberty, but it did seem that my attraction to women’s clothing and the fantasy of looking like a woman was different from what others expressed. So, I never shared my feelings with anyone.
I do not believe there was any “medical” condition that influenced my gender confusion. I’ve been poked, prodded, and tested countless times throughout my long life. Nothing has been abnormal. But, I do believe that my propensities are genuinely a part of every cell of my body and my mind. While outside influences have given me opportunities to explore, conceal, or develop my feminine inclinations, I believe I was born the way I am. Believing that took some time, but I’ve been there for years. Although I can often become frustrated by society’s rejection and my inability to live-out my feminine fantasies, I am thankful that I enjoy my crossdressing and, I suppose, cross-dreaming! This is the only life I will ever live. I’m happy with this gift regardless of how others see it.
FAM
- August 30, 2019 at 6:05 am #215073
<p style=”–original-color: #333333; –original-background-color: #ffffff;”> I would like to thank all of you for your interest and your wonderful accounts of your personnel lives. I would like to add this poll was also a question. I wanted to know if anyone had some idea as to a common denominator that could explain how so many of us could have such life changing ideas and feelings that are almost identical among the larger percentage of us. That said we are all here to support and listen to each others thoughts and ideas that is what separates us from everyone else that wants to ignore or judge us. I used the term medical history not meaning to infer that something was wrong or deficient with us or we have a medical problem . If I have offended anyone, I ask your forgiveness. Love Coral</p>
- August 30, 2019 at 9:09 am #215131
Coral;
Thanks for your question and followup. Please understand that your terminology has caused me no offence as the way it was offered and used was exactly in line with prior experiences with the medical profession. I would have liked an answer “Maybe – but it doesn’t matter anyway”
I do have reasons to believe that there may be a reason for me being the way I am, happily termed as either my medical history or neurological/biological reasons. Unfortunately the time to be able to make the determination of whether it was the case is well past, and all of it is now supposition in any case.
I have thought long and hard about my reactions to whether I do want to explain the desire for being femme due to biological reasons or not. It’s definitely an easier road to self-acceptance because there’s absolutely no choice, (not that I believe there really is), but it makes it somewhat easier to explain… But it’s a double edged sword; Some people will say that’s not accurate and there may be later studies that contradict your understanding, and then there’s the comments that come, “Can’t you do something about it?”; Some people will just accept it as a “bad deal of the cards”, when they won’t accept “This is how I feel”.
I have found an excellent summary of developmental reasons at https://www.functionalneurology.com/materiale_cic/389_XXIV_1/3373_sexual/ and have reasons from this to be able to state that there have been some very definite possible scenarios where the timing was right for a physiological reason for my life-long feeling of “otherhood”.
At the end of the day, however, I’ve had to accept that this is just “Who I am” and the cause is somewhat irrelevant as in either case it wasn’t a conscious choice.
Thank you for the excellent question, and I’m so sorry that I haven’t had my thoughts together sufficiently well to answer sooner… They’re still jumbled, but slightly less so from the contemplation of your question.
Hugs and many thanks
-Molly
- This reply was modified 4 years ago by Molly.
- August 30, 2019 at 8:24 am #215096
I’m not a doctor but I have watched a few on TV…..
The word some are reaching for isn’t medical it’s physiological. If you are born with a penis it’s part of your physiology. Same with a narrow hemisphere gap in your brain. Same with XXY chromosomes. If it’s how you were born it’s physiological. What you do about it can called medical.
I think it was Maddie who said combination of nature and nurture and I have to agree. I had to learn to be a manly man. Or else.
As for my physiology I don’t know that my testosterone has ever been checked but I did have late descending testicles. (wow, there’s my new 👕 t-shirt) I don’t know if that means anything in regards to gender identity or t-levels. I would have liked to play with dolls and would have forgone sports. It wasn’t an option. At least not one I would have been willing to love with then.
Hugs
Autumn
- August 30, 2019 at 10:52 am #215163
Below is an excerpt from the website “Light in the Closet” about some effects of male menopause:
“For those men who have struggled with gender all their lives, during andropause these feelings of confusion can come back with a vengeance. Many men (dealing with gender identity) when they were younger joined the military, pursued the macho job or got married believing that those choices would help them fit into society and that over time the feelings and desires for the feminine would lessen and be more manageable. For some, it is a rude awakening to find out that those feelings actually increase rather than decrease. This often creates frustration and despair. This condition is sometimes referred to as ‘mid-life crisis.’”
I thought this might add some clarity to our discussion.
FAM
- September 7, 2019 at 6:36 pm #219165
My mom said that her gynecologist said that she was having a girl (long before there was DNA testing or ultrasound, just by old wives tales methods). And she also said that she had a different gynecologist for my (older) sister than she did for me or my two (younger) brothers. Somehow, I don’t think it works that way.
While this makes a great story, I know that with me it was definitely nurture more than nature. I remember several incidents in my very young life that have affected me. When I was 2 I attended my aunt’s wedding. She had on a high neck wedding gown. I remember incidents when I was younger when my mom’s skirt would brush against my legs. It tickled but also sent a tingle up my spine. I couldn’t really describe the feeling at the time, but was scared and fascinated by silky garments.
I also remember going to the barber when I was younger. When he would wrap the tissue paper around my neck, it also gave me a similar tingle. Then he would wrap the nylon cape around my neck. It would bring back images and feelings of my aunt’s wedding. I especially felt it in the summer when I would wear shorts and the cape was long enough that I would imagine it was a dress. At each haircut, when the barber was nearly finished, he would run the buzzer low on my neck. My body was at just the right size and the buzzer at the right frequency that when he reached the spine, I would feel the vibrations right in my tail bone. A very strange feeling for someone so young. I feared and looked forward to my haircuts.
I remember wrapping my legs tightly in the covers when I slept and pretended it was a skirt, often humping slowly. I was too young to understand these fetish feelings, other than knowing I had to hide them.
I could probably name a few more, but I think you get the idea. These feelings had a profound fetish effect on me long before I had any idea what a fetish was or what sex was. The fact that these are among my earliest memories tells you how much they impacted me. Years later I would learn that I enjoyed women’s clothing beyond any fetish feelings.
So for me it was mostly experiences in my early life that led me down this path.
- September 9, 2019 at 7:46 am #220016
Your question is a little narrow. A crossdresser is a person that likes to wear the other genders clothes maybe look like that gender but not want to be that gender. This is who I am. If someone wants or needs to live as the opposite gender then that would be a choice or a medical condition. That is transgender. I do not like the words crossdresser or transgender as they seem like a bad thing and thats what society has put them. People should have the right to wear what they want for whatever reason they have. People should also be able to be the gender that they want or need to be. Nobody should be labeled or harassed about it. Life is to short. My wife knows about my dressing and isn’t upset about it at all. My friends know I wear panties and women’s clothes because I always wear panties and normally wear leggings, tights and jeggings. I have true friends and they like me for who I am and not for what I wear. As I said LIFE IS TOO SHORT, wear what you want and be who you want to be.
- September 9, 2019 at 10:26 pm #220317
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At last another “sister” with a similar background to mine. Thanks again for your comment.
Tues., 9/10/2019, 1:26 AM ET
- August 23, 2019 at 1:41 am #211385
<p style=”–original-color: #333333; –original-background-color: #ffffff;”> Tiffany, Thank you for your reply, I am in agreement that they will find that for some if not most of us who feel we should have been born as the opposite gender was a direct result of something genetic. Another point , I did not mean to imply that the way I or anyone’s feelings as it pertains to their gender to be a problem on the contrary I believe this is a wonderful gift and for me a blessed one. I think their might be a reason for my condition because the only explanation the Doctors ever gave was they didn’t know why I had a low T count. For others it could be as you suggest. If and when they can conclude something it would explain a lot to a me and many many others. Ladies that being said do not take anything I said as fact, because this little ole southern girl is not a doctor, I just think to much (out loud that is). Love you all Coral</p>
- August 23, 2019 at 2:05 am #211393
A few of us on here have a condition called Klinefelters Syndrome where we have an extra x chromosome – this means we have both the female x chromosomes that would normally make us female but we also have the y chromosome which gives us male some characteristics including those that resulted in use being assigned male at birth.
We all have our tale to tell and I think that we will all have our own reasons why we dress – some nature, some nurture and probably for most, a varying combo of both.
Take care girls.
Anne-Marie.
- August 24, 2019 at 12:54 am #211959
<p style=”–original-color: #333333; –original-background-color: #ffffff;”> Tiffany thank you so much, if you only new how much those words of wisdom meant to me coming from a Medical Professional. I hope you are right in that they will know in a few years it would mean so much to others and like you said the whole world would have to see us with a different view. I know what it would mean to me, but at this age and the fact I have accepted I am who I am and cannot change. Knowing that their is a medical reason for my feelings and thoughts probably wouldn’t affect any change in my life except I would feel better about myself. I think you know what I’m trying to say. It is harder to deal with this when your young and for us older girls we have lived and fought this battle over and over until you just have to accept who you are. well thank you again I couldn’t think of anything better I could of heard tonight. Coral</p>
- August 29, 2019 at 4:48 am #214575
<p style=”–original-color: #333333; –original-background-color: #ffffff;”> Hello Stephanie, I did not mean medical as something wrong or damaged but rather just as an explanation. I do not think something is wrong with any of us. I just don’t think that a young male child is capable of feeling the need to be the opposite gender without having a predisposed genetic reason for those feelings. There just has to be an explanation, Nature ask for this all the time. It’s like cause and effect I believe, Coral</p>
- August 30, 2019 at 5:41 am #215070
<p style=”–original-color: #333333; –original-background-color: #ffffff;”> Dear Stephanie, Thank you for your kindness, I am not offended or do I feel that you have criticised me . I can see how you feel about the stigma of the word, but it was not in that context I meant it to be. So please forgive me , I wrote it like that so everyone would take it as they may interpret it . I hope I have not offended anyone also. Coral</p>
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