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I got another story to share with you!
This time I REALLY went out for the night! Saturday Night to a known drag bar just outside of downtown Phoenix. I posted pics before I went in case your interested.
It took me a little longer than normal to get ready. In part because I had for the very first time shaved my arms and hands bare…because of my outfit. Wonderful feeling btw! Also being I had never used a purse before, I had to check if I had everything like 5 or 6 times, and brought along waaay more than what I thought I would need.
So I finally get there…and of course that…OK here I go…deep breath…and get out of the car!! Even kept my knees together like a lady! I started walking up to the door at the same time another woman walked up. Despite the mask I could tell she had a big smile under there as she opened the door for me. Went in and marched up to the bar. The girl at the bar greeted me with a “What cha need Honey?” Ordered a pint and sat at the bar.
Not much happened at first. A couple looks, a couple of “love your boots!” but not much else for a little while. Then a kind of creepy troll guy getting a little too close to me and my purse as he was trying to get a drink. Sooo…time to move and head out to the outdoor patio for a while.
A couple more hello’s and love the boots! You could say the boots stole the show all night long! Anyway I sit next to a bunch of ladies, where the youngest eyeballs me and asks she could sit next to me. She said it was because I felt safe to be around. The creepy troll guy from inside was trying to hit on one of the other ladies. Her name is Gaia and shes 25. Her pack includes her Mom who just cam out as lesbian, her moms partner and 2 other trans girls. We start talking and have a great conversation, she tells me Im “killing it” with the makeup and outfit and my whole appearance and get invited back inside to join the group. Everything was going great then…Uh-Oh…my bladder calls!! Really?? In guy mode I almost never have an issue, now all of a sudden its urgent! Thankfully Gaia escorted me when I asked her. Not that I had to worry too much. The bathroom was barely big enough for 2 stalls and a tiny sink…and there’s like 6 of us crammed in this tiny space. Not to mention…being its a drag bar…half the girls are standing up anyhow! LOL!! I guess being a “lady” wasn’t quite required!! LOL!! I cant make this stuff up!!
Even had some great compliments from a couple of men too! I was even inivted by Gaia and her pack to head to Dennys after the bar. Sitting in Denny’s eating and having great conversation until waaay too late but it was all worth it. Gaia even asked for my number so that when they come party at the bar again, they want me to join them.
I couldn’t have asked for a better first REAL outing that started off by myself and ended up making friends along the way. Smiled all the way home. Finally taking off my makeup at OMG! 4am!! but smiling because I had a fantastic time!
You could say the moral of the story is this – The only obstacles in our lives are the ones that WE ourselves tend to put in front of us.
I hope that soon I get to read someone else’s story out there and get to share a little bit of the amazing day or night that you get to have!
XO – Robyn 🤗💋❤️
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