- November 25, 2022 at 11:37 am #696790AnonymousInactiveTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
I am a very new member here but already I can feel positive things happening after my decision to join.
Probably, this is in part due to the fact that jointing CDH is the first time I’ve had the courage to publicly admit that Gemma lives within me and cannot be ignored.
For me I noticed a significant change today. My wife returned from a shopping trip with a new top today. Ordinarily, I would have just ignored her efforts to show it to me but, today, I actually wanted to see it, hear her thoughts about it – and wonder how I would look in it.
I’m not sure if she noticed my change in attitude – but I did. It’s scary but also feels like I am gradually letting go of some untruths that have held me back.
Thank you for all the positive comments I have received here. I love Gemma and I am thankful to CDH. X
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- December 2, 2022 at 10:59 am #698443Kim DahlenbergenLadyRegistered On: November 18, 2019Topics: 1Replies: 285Has thanked: 261 timesBeen thanked: 1057 times
- December 1, 2022 at 6:50 am #698204Erika HendersonDuchess - AnnualRegistered On: November 26, 2022Topics: 5Replies: 204Has thanked: 1224 timesBeen thanked: 784 times
Gemma, I couldn’t agree with you more! I share your feelings about joining CDH! In the past week, I have found so much more confidence that I never possessed before regarding Erika! I feel totally free to finally discover who she really is and let her explore! It is so wonderful to be able to truly get in touch with her!
- December 1, 2022 at 11:33 am #698251AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
Thanks for your comments. And I really am enjoying the new awareness this has given me.
Like Gemma, I guess that Erika has always been there but just needed to know she could be accepted somewhere before she started to emerge.
Enjoy discovering her and letting her be who she truly is.
- December 1, 2022 at 1:43 pm #698269Erika HendersonDuchess - AnnualRegistered On: November 26, 2022Topics: 5Replies: 204Has thanked: 1224 timesBeen thanked: 784 times
You are so right! She really has been there all along, and, thanks to all my sisters here and their encouragement, she is finally able to emerge! I am really enjoying getting to know her!
I hope you are enjoying getting to know Gemma as well!
- December 1, 2022 at 6:41 am #698201Janet WoodhamLadyRegistered On: January 21, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 77Has thanked: 498 timesBeen thanked: 384 times
Nice to meet you, Gemma.
I also find I increasingly wonder when I see a woman in an outfit I like, what it would look like on me.
I have found this site a wonderful source of support and I hope you do to.
- December 1, 2022 at 11:29 am #698248AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
- November 26, 2022 at 8:35 pm #697160Lara TuckerLadyRegistered On: September 29, 2021Topics: 2Replies: 1267Has thanked: 28059 timesBeen thanked: 4675 times
I know what you mean about noticing, and being interested in what your wife is buying.
Isn’t it amazing to have these feelings? I hope you can get to be her girlfriend, and her husband too!
- November 26, 2022 at 8:44 pm #697165AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
Thank you so much Lara. Yes, these feelings are both new to me and wonderful. I would love to introduce my wife to Gemma but know there is work to do before that can happen. In the meantime it’s great to have the support and encouragement I’m getting on CDH.
- November 26, 2022 at 3:07 pm #697104Lauren MugnaiaDuchessRegistered On: November 1, 2021Topics: 24Replies: 638Has thanked: 10484 timesBeen thanked: 3605 times
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Thank you so much Lauren. X
- November 26, 2022 at 10:59 am #697040Jess SecretLadyRegistered On: February 18, 2021Topics: 15Replies: 598Has thanked: 1467 timesBeen thanked: 2597 times
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- November 25, 2022 at 9:40 pm #696908Danica DaroyBaronessRegistered On: November 6, 2021Topics: 3Replies: 35Has thanked: 181 timesBeen thanked: 190 times
First off, welcome to CDH hon!! You’ll love it here!!
The fact that you have joined us and have shared a deep secret that has I’m sure been itching to be released for a long while, is extremely satisfying. It’s almost like for the first time, you can feel a little more at peace. As time passes, you will feel more comfortable with yourself, and with all the experiences that you read about here will definitely help.
Glad you’re here Gemma. Enjoy!!🥰
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- November 25, 2022 at 8:45 pm #696891Stephanie GreenLadyRegistered On: November 20, 2022Topics: 2Replies: 108Has thanked: 120 timesBeen thanked: 443 times
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You are so right Stephanie.
- November 25, 2022 at 7:52 pm #696887Fredrika JonesLadyRegistered On: February 24, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 490Has thanked: 586 timesBeen thanked: 1713 times
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Thank you Fedrika. X
- November 25, 2022 at 4:16 pm #696846Wanda OvahearRegistered On: October 19, 2022Topics: 6Replies: 244Has thanked: 1075 timesBeen thanked: 849 times
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Thank you Wanda. I hope that too.
- November 25, 2022 at 1:58 pm #696826Fiona BlackBaroness - AnnualRegistered On: November 23, 2019Topics: 1Replies: 432Has thanked: 272 timesBeen thanked: 1824 times
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Thank you Fiona.
- November 25, 2022 at 1:47 pm #696820Sherri RemingtonDuchess - AnnualRegistered On: August 8, 2018Topics: 2Replies: 146Has thanked: 132 timesBeen thanked: 585 times
Hi Gemma, I came out to my wife many many years ago with only understanding on her part and no support. But on a recent trip I had once again had the heart to heart talk and spoke of how Sherri is a real part of me. This time there was some support on her side and with that I felt a weight being lifted off my shoulders and now I feel much more at ease with myself trying harder to present as the woman I want to be so I know how you feel.
- November 25, 2022 at 8:54 pm #696900AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
- November 25, 2022 at 1:37 pm #696816Allysa GrantLadyRegistered On: November 1, 2022Topics: 0Replies: 250Has thanked: 1851 timesBeen thanked: 987 times
Hi, Gemma. It is so much fun to see what your S/O will purchase. Thinking about how you would look in an outfit and how it would feel can be a great experience. There are times when we all have a scary feeling when we start to really explore ourselves and start figuring out who we want to be. I have the best wishes for you. Hugs, Allysa
- November 25, 2022 at 8:55 pm #696901AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
Thank you so much Allysa.
- November 25, 2022 at 12:49 pm #696806Sara CousinsDuchessRegistered On: October 30, 2022Topics: 3Replies: 146Has thanked: 299 timesBeen thanked: 809 times
Your feelings are my sentiments exactly. I think I knew Sara was always in there but how did I get to let her out? Then a week before Halloween I was in the store and ventured into the woman’s section and was looking at the panties (I always liked my wife’s when I was married) when a salesperson came over and asked if I needed help. Destiny had entered my life again. I said I was going to a Halloween party and was going as a woman but had no idea where to start. Got the bras and panties and nylons and then picked out a couple of nice outfits which she helped me with the sizing. She was so helpful and she even rung me through her register and bagged the stuff up so I wouldn’t have to go through the front cashiers.
Sara was released that day and then I find CDH and now I wear my panties and bra every day under my man clothes and dress in the privacy of home. I think I will probably be a closet CD’er but who knows what the future and destiny holds for this girl who feels more and more girly every day.
PS: love to friend and chat if ever you like.
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- November 25, 2022 at 12:23 pm #696800Rozalyn RichardsLadyRegistered On: July 27, 2022Topics: 0Replies: 702Has thanked: 718 timesBeen thanked: 2737 times
Hi Gemma I’m another UK girl, I’ve been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister’s lingerie on, I’m still in the closet to my wife, I’ve tried to give Roz up many times over the years but she is still here with me and will be for the rest of my life, my biggest wish is to attend a big venue with lots of girls like us, I would love to attend Keystone or maybe first Friday in Leeds or maybe one of the big ones in London,
Hugs Rozalyn X 🎀
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- November 25, 2022 at 12:06 pm #696797Sarah CeriseLadyRegistered On: September 25, 2022Topics: 5Replies: 162Has thanked: 440 timesBeen thanked: 614 times
Its lovely to have you here another UK girl, it’s great realising there is this woman inside you. I love the feeling like you do, noticing what your wife or other women buy or wear happens to all us girls. I would love to chat sometime.
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