- This topic has 28 replies, 13 voices, and was last updated 3 years ago by Katey Doe.
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- February 25, 2021 at 6:20 am #453600
Hello Ladies,
Just another update on my shopping experience. I took the advice of some of you and departed my home area and went to another town for my shopping. I picked up some nylons and lipstick (small items I know). This is so exciting for me. I’m starting to feel a little more comfortable.
I know these are only small items but for me this is big steps. I’m finally going out there and getting Katey her lady needs. Soon I will be moving up to Bras and more undies.
Thank you to all of you for supporting me. I truly love CDH. BIG HUGS Katey
- February 25, 2021 at 6:28 am #453605
Katey,
It’s an amazing experience! To be out and shopping. Its what I live for!!
Lanna
- February 25, 2021 at 6:58 am #453615
Hi Lanna,
I love shopping just a nervous wreck while doing it haha. I wasn’t dressed as Katey I’m not confident yet. Everyone here has been so supportive. Hugs Katey
- February 25, 2021 at 6:30 am #453606AnonymousLady
Small steps lead to giant leaps! I remember my first real time out dressed. I was shaking in my panties but soon realized no one noticed or cared. They are in their own little world and barely have time for themselves much less me. I started slowly just like you but now going out is like breathing, it just happens.
Hugs,
Sandy
- February 25, 2021 at 6:56 am #453612
I agree crawl walk run. I wasn’t dressed, I’m not that confident yet, someday I will be. Hugs Katey
- February 25, 2021 at 7:02 am #453618Anonymous
Katey I’ve so far done all my shopping online, but I need to do like you and go somewhere local, so I don’t have to wait for days for the stuff to arrive!
Good job!
💖
- February 25, 2021 at 7:10 am #453622
Thank you. I’m so nervous when I go but I’m going for Katey that’s how much she means to me. I’m way out of my comfort zone but she deserves it.
- February 25, 2021 at 7:19 am #453630Anonymous
Katey you said “but I’m going for Katey that’s how much she means to me”
Wow, that’s a powerful statement, with that proper attitude we can conquer any fear!
thank you..💖
- February 25, 2021 at 7:22 am #453635
Fear is a big foe but we have numbers we can defeat fear. Thank you, Hugs Katey
- February 25, 2021 at 7:44 am #453644
Hi Katey,
Congratulations for stepping out of your comfort zone and going shopping in person! Small steps for sure but you are building confidence.
Alice
- February 25, 2021 at 7:48 am #453646
Hi Alice,
Thank you for replying. Katey is my world and I try to good for her. Hugs Katey
- February 25, 2021 at 7:53 am #453648
Hi Katey,
Confidence comes with time. It took me a while to gain it. But, once you have it there’s no stopping. I shop locally now and no one even bats an eye. I’m treated like on of the girls! It’s an exhilarating experience to say the least. Glad to see your starting with small steps. The big ones are not far away.
Love and hugs,
Lanna💋❤
- February 25, 2021 at 9:02 am #453684
Thank you Lanna,
Thank you for your support. Someday I will be shopping with confidence. Thank you again. Hugs – Katey
- February 25, 2021 at 9:08 am #453687Anonymous
Small steps Katey small steps, one day at a time soon the steps will get bigger your confidence will grow and you will wonder what all the fuss was about this is the 21st century not the 1950’s people are more tolerant now xxxxx
Hugs Rozalyne x
- February 25, 2021 at 9:46 am #453700
Thank you Rozalyne. I hope I can build upon my confidence level. Thank you again. Hugs – Katey
- February 25, 2021 at 9:43 am #453698
Very excited for you, and you should be proud!! Way to go!!😍💖
- February 25, 2021 at 9:47 am #453701
Jamie, thank you for your kind words. Hugs – Katey
- February 25, 2021 at 9:56 am #453707
Look at you go Katey,
Love positive updates
Big hug, Liv
- February 25, 2021 at 12:49 pm #453778Anonymous
Katey you are oozing confidence keep it up girl, shop wherever you desire you deserve to be happy. Confident girls like you go about their day unnoticed.
Best Wishes
Sarah
- February 25, 2021 at 12:57 pm #453780Anonymous
Katey,
This is so awesome (especially since I was one who threw a note in the suggestion box! Lol).
The first time I did that, I just walked into the store, which was empty because there was only about 45 minutes left until closing on a weeknight. And I just came out and told them, “hey, I’m a crossdresser but not very experienced and I could use some help!” Oh my gosh, I felt like Princess Diana. The 2 clerks fell all over themselves helping me. The fitted me for a bra, coordinated outfits, found me matching light blue panties and a lacy bra, some cute ballet flats with a bow, a very feminine top and a soft denim skirt that I swear is (was — it got purged in the great purge of 2009) by far THE most comfortable article of clothing I ever wore.
The beautiful part of it was that when you just come out and say what you are and what you’re doing, there is absolutely nothing to hide anymore! No reason for fear or secrecy. I’m telling yo: it makes these girls’ days who are the clerks. They have an absolute ball! Now you might have trouble if you wanted to circle back and flirt with/date one of them, but being married myself I could not care less.
That whole experience was AMAZING. And it sounds like you’re on the road! Lol. Keep it up!
- February 25, 2021 at 1:03 pm #453785
We are all here to support you in your ups and downs.
Sandy- February 25, 2021 at 2:49 pm #453826
Thank you Sandy everyone had been great with me. Hugs Katey
- February 27, 2021 at 2:37 am #454598
Hugs backatcha Katey Doe!! Keep having fun.
PaulaF
- February 27, 2021 at 3:30 am #454624
Thank you ❤️
- February 27, 2021 at 4:43 am #454662
Even the smallest of steps are huge in the end. Glad to hear your courage is increasing. Can’t wait to hear more of your journey
With lots of love ❤️
❤️Tonya- February 27, 2021 at 4:46 am #454666
Thank you Tonya I can’t wait to explore more. Hugs Katey
- February 25, 2021 at 6:58 am #453616
It sure is a great feeling. Hugs Katey
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