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      Tonya Leren
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      Even the smallest of steps are huge in the end. Glad to hear your courage is increasing. Can’t wait to hear more of your journey

      With lots of love ❤️
      ❤️Tonya

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        Katey Doe
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        Thank you Tonya I can’t wait to explore more. Hugs Katey

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      Paula F
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      Hugs backatcha Katey Doe!!  Keep having fun.

      PaulaF

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        Katey Doe
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        Thank you ❤️

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      Sandy Jayson
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      We are all here to support you in your ups and downs.
      Sandy

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        Katey Doe
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        Thank you Sandy everyone had been great with me. Hugs Katey

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      Stephanie Scott
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      Katey,

      This is so awesome (especially since I was one who threw a note in the suggestion box! Lol).

      The first time I did that, I just walked into the store, which was empty because there was only about 45 minutes left until closing on a weeknight. And I just came out and told them, “hey, I’m a crossdresser but not very experienced and I could use some help!” Oh my gosh, I felt like Princess Diana. The 2 clerks fell all over themselves helping me. The fitted me for a bra, coordinated outfits, found me matching light blue panties and a lacy bra, some cute ballet flats with a bow, a very feminine top and a soft denim skirt that I swear is (was — it got purged in the great purge of 2009) by far THE most comfortable article of clothing I ever wore.

      The beautiful part of it was that when you just come out and say what you are and what you’re doing, there is absolutely nothing to hide anymore! No reason for fear or secrecy. I’m telling yo: it makes these girls’ days who are the clerks. They have an absolute ball! Now you might have trouble if you wanted to circle back and flirt with/date one of them, but being married myself I could not care less.

      That whole experience was AMAZING. And it sounds like you’re on the road! Lol. Keep it up!

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      Sarah Du Hessisse
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      Katey you are oozing confidence  keep it up girl, shop wherever you desire you deserve to be happy. Confident girls like you go about their day unnoticed.

      Best Wishes

      Sarah

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      Olivia Livin
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      Look at you go Katey,

      Love positive updates

      Big hug, Liv

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        Katey Doe
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        Thank you Olivia, your so nice.

        Hugs Kat

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          Olivia Livin
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          Shhhshh Katey🤫

          Don’t tell other people that,

          I like to think that I have my moments 😇lol

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      Jamie Peridot
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      Very excited for you, and you should be proud!! Way to go!!😍💖

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        Katey Doe
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        Jamie, thank you for your kind words. Hugs – Katey

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      Rozalyne Richards
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      Small steps Katey small steps, one day at a time soon the steps will get bigger your confidence will grow and you will wonder what all the fuss was about this is the 21st century not the 1950’s people are more tolerant now xxxxx

      Hugs Rozalyne x

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        Katey Doe
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        Thank you Rozalyne. I hope I can build upon my confidence level. Thank you again. Hugs – Katey

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      Lanna Barton
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      Hi Katey,

      Confidence comes with time. It took me a while to gain it. But, once you have it there’s no stopping. I shop locally now and no one even bats an eye. I’m treated like on of the girls!  It’s an exhilarating experience to say the least. Glad to see your starting with small steps. The big ones are not far away.

      Love and hugs,

      Lanna💋❤

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        Katey Doe
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        Thank you Lanna,

        Thank you for your support. Someday I will be shopping with confidence. Thank you again. Hugs – Katey

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      Alice Underwire
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      Hi Katey,

      Congratulations for stepping out of your comfort zone and going shopping in person!  Small steps for sure but you are building confidence.

      Alice

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        Katey Doe
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        Hi Alice,

        Thank you for replying. Katey is my world and I try to good for her. Hugs Katey

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      Effie Fulk
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      Katey I’ve so far done all my shopping online, but I need to do like you and go somewhere local, so I don’t have to wait for days for the stuff to arrive!

      Good job!

      💖

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      • #453622
        Katey Doe
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        Thank you. I’m so nervous when I go but I’m going for Katey that’s how much she means to me. I’m way out of my comfort zone but she deserves it.

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          Effie Fulk
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          Katey you said “but I’m going for Katey that’s how much she means to me”

          Wow, that’s a powerful statement, with that proper attitude we can conquer any fear!
          thank you..

          💖

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            Katey Doe
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            Fear is a big foe but we have numbers we can defeat fear. Thank you, Hugs Katey

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      Genevïéve
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      That’s wonderful Katey… glad to hear you are more confident with yourself. It’s a great feeling…

      Ty for sharing… 🥰

      Gen ❤

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        Katey Doe
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        It sure is a great feeling. Hugs Katey

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      Sandy Honey
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      Small steps lead to giant leaps! I remember my first real time out dressed. I was shaking in my panties but soon realized no one noticed or cared. They are in their own little world and barely have time for themselves much less me. I started slowly just like you but now going out is like breathing, it just happens.

      Hugs,

      Sandy

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        Katey Doe
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        I agree crawl walk run. I wasn’t dressed, I’m not that confident yet, someday I will be. Hugs Katey

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      Lanna Barton
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      Katey,

      It’s an amazing experience! To be out and shopping. Its what I live for!!

      Lanna

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        Katey Doe
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        Hi Lanna,

        I love shopping just a nervous wreck while doing it haha. I wasn’t dressed as Katey I’m not confident yet. Everyone here has been so supportive. Hugs Katey

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