Are bras a fashion accessory or are they lingerie?
This poll asks if you think bras are now a fashion accessory and it is okay if they are seen, or if they are lingerie and should be kept covered up.
- Fashion accessory, so it's okay to show them
- Lingerie, so they should be kept covered up
- It depends on what I'm wearing
- Other
Tagged: Bras should they show?
- This topic has 23 replies, 19 voices, and was last updated 7 months ago by
Gine Lynne Carter.
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- June 22, 2022 at 7:40 am #654967
Anonymous
InactiveTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 timesHi ladies!
I’ve noticed over the last few years that bras are being seen more and more often. Not just showing through a blouse, but being worn as outwear, being worn under a top that is open, and so on. Women, real women that is, seem to have a different perception of bras than previous generations did.
So my question for you is, do you consider bras to be a fashion accessory so that they’re out in the open on display, or are the lingerie and should be kept somewhat hidden?
I’m somewhere in the middle. Yes, I’m a bit older, so I was raised that a woman does not show her bra through the fabric of her dress or blouse. That means if I’m wearing a fairly see-through blouse or top, I might wear a camisole under it to cover up my bra straps or cups from showing through the fabric. But then on the other hand, bras have become much, much nicer than they used to be, and some are indistinguishable from bikini tops, so maybe it is okay to show them, or at least some part of them.
So…, what’s your opinion?
Hugs,
Holly
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- January 29, 2023 at 9:29 am #713395
Gine Lynne Carter
LadyRegistered On: April 16, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 26Has thanked: 460 timesBeen thanked: 144 timesI think they’re mostly lingerie. Sometimes though depending on the situation, etc., I’ll leave some buttons undone or let the straps show.
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- January 29, 2023 at 12:57 am #713267
Christine Blue
LadyRegistered On: January 24, 2023Topics: 1Replies: 39Has thanked: 102 timesBeen thanked: 130 timesCorset tops are absolutely fashion items.
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- July 31, 2022 at 8:35 pm #666641
Debbie Burns
LadyRegistered On: February 19, 2022Topics: 0Replies: 79Has thanked: 224 timesBeen thanked: 260 timesMy opinion on the subject is a bra is a lingerie piece and should we should attempt to cover it. Sometimes a strap or a bit may peek out from under a top or be reviled through a shirt, a little show from a low cut neckline.Although not intentional it happens. A lot of todays bras are very pretty and feminine and very nice to look at. They are very sexy and make the wearer feel sexy and pretty.Knowing that you have it on and what you look and feel under your clothes is a nice feeling in itself and maybe keeping the secret hidden has you feeling more feminine and sexy as you go about your day.
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- July 21, 2022 at 12:39 am #664264
Carmen Cruz
LadyRegistered On: September 12, 2021Topics: 37Replies: 375Has thanked: 559 timesBeen thanked: 2350 timesOh gosh, here I go. LOL.
I’ll first say that there are bras designed to be seen, and some that aren’t. It really depends on the style.
I make sure mine are seen as it’s really seductive (again, if it’s a style meant to be seen). This goes for the um, thongs too. I have a thing where my lipstick and thongs have to match in color, as well as my heels now too. That way, no matter what, my accent color is seen and coordinated head to toe and inbetween…if they’re looking at me from the front (lips and heels match), if they’re looking at me from the back (thong and heels match), if they’re looking at me from the back and I turn my head all sexy to look at them back (lips, thongs and heels match).
🙂
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- July 21, 2022 at 12:07 am #664263
Davina
LadyRegistered On: April 15, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 172Has thanked: 1538 timesBeen thanked: 585 timesI believe bras are lingerie, I cover mine up. A wonderful necessity and I love wearing them. However I see many women who show the straps in the way they dress. Some have them show through their blouses. So to each there own. Whatever makes you happy.
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- June 30, 2022 at 4:21 am #659525
Raquel Smith
LadyRegistered On: August 26, 2021Topics: 21Replies: 1021Has thanked: 3591 timesBeen thanked: 3558 timesI don’t wear a bra often. Usually not unless I am going full femme, which is a rare occurrence. That being said, I think that while bras are functional underwear, they are also fashion accessories. For most of us (me at least) they function to hold our fake titties in place and give the appearance of having natural breasts. But I also wear one, because it is just such a feminine piece of clothing.
Sometimes, the prettier the bra, the more one wants it to be seen, though. I think flashing a hint of lace at the cleavage, or not trying to cover up the straps is okay. I mean, come on, if they weren’t meant to be seen, they’d be constructed as very bland articles of clothing.
And, although I only have one matching set, that really is the sexiest way to underdress, even if it’s for your eyes only to see (or if you’re very lucky, your SO’s). And especially as lounge-around-the-house or boudoir, with hosiery and high heels attire.
As outerwear, never.
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- June 30, 2022 at 12:27 am #659512
Jenny Liu
LadyRegistered On: January 27, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 35Has thanked: 1 timeBeen thanked: 132 timesFor me, my bra(s) is (are) lingerie that adds seductiveness/attractiveness to my overall appearance. I “show” my bra (whether intentionally or not) whenever I dress up in different ways. I like to dress up in a sexy (or slutty) way, either showing my bra through sheer tops or showing my bra from my cleavage or even down-buttoned top.
So, even though it’s lingerie, I reveal my bra no matter how I dress. Just my way of dressing.
Jenny
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- June 23, 2022 at 8:06 pm #658187
Alexis Scott
LadyRegistered On: September 20, 2021Topics: 3Replies: 15Has thanked: 14 timesBeen thanked: 57 timesIt depends, I think it is ok they are shown at times. I’d much prefer a woman wear a bra that shows w/ a spaghetti strap top then have her boobs bouncing all over the place…lol
But If it fits the top/dress…then I’am all for the bra and/or straps showing.
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- June 23, 2022 at 5:20 pm #658151
Anonymous
Topics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 timesHi, I read the question and immediately voted “lingerie”. My first thoughts were that bras are functional pieces of clothing, designed to support our boobs and keep them comfortable and shouldn’t be seen. That said, bras are gorgeous, pretty, feminine, sexy things to wear and not just scaffolding but that doesn’t mean that they should be shown off as a fashion accessory. I have no problem with wearing a white bra with a sheer blouse or a shirt where my bra can be seen, or wearing a bra with a strappy top and my bra straps can be seen. I just don’t think that bras should be worn as a fashion top. Hugs, Helen.
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- June 23, 2022 at 8:29 am #657955
Lauren Mugnaia
DuchessRegistered On: November 1, 2021Topics: 40Replies: 813Has thanked: 16752 timesBeen thanked: 4890 timesHmmm, after saying what I said in my earlier reply about calling it lingerie, I noticed yesterday, while getting my nails done, that, regardless of what bra or top I wear, I am displaying my, ahem, nipples… So much for trying to remain modest…oh well.
Hugs girls,
Lauren M
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- June 23, 2022 at 4:34 am #657545
Carolyn Kay
Baroness - AnnualRegistered On: August 25, 2016Topics: 23Replies: 604Has thanked: 2130 timesBeen thanked: 2705 timesI think a little bra showing, under a sheer top, does add to the look of the outfit. However, when you are just underdressing and you hear someone say, “are you wearing a bra?” That can ruin your day, and most definitely does not add to your male outfit, lol.
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- June 23, 2022 at 1:50 am #657480
Dianna Rose
Registered On: August 18, 2019Topics: 8Replies: 1099Has thanked: 1969 timesBeen thanked: 3922 timesI’m okay if it’s seen under a thin blouse or tee shirt. As far as outer wear, I don’t think so.
I know the younger girls, cis and trans, think it’s cool. For me, I don’t think so.
Diane
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- June 22, 2022 at 9:30 pm #655124
Alison Anderson
DuchessRegistered On: October 15, 2018Topics: 17Replies: 1180Has thanked: 909 timesBeen thanked: 4958 timesDefinitely a Cover (-up) Girl here. Even if it shows through the V neck I’ll usually put on a cami unless the part showing looks like a cami or a modesty panel for the outfit. But because of today’s attitudes, although I try to keep the strap covered, I won’t get too upset if I’m wearing a tank top and there is movement of the top that causes the strap to show.
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- June 22, 2022 at 7:31 pm #655087
Anonymous
DuchessTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 timesAll depends, a low cut blouse, I want my lacy bra to be seen. A botton down shirt tied at the waist, my bralette is center of attention. The reason my bras must match my panties is the lingerie factor. I always try to hint to the onlooker what I’m wearing. a Strap on the shoulder, lace peeking out. Seduction, starts how sexy I feel. I attempt to make sweatpants lingerie.
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- July 20, 2022 at 8:44 pm #664237
Dianna Rose
Registered On: August 18, 2019Topics: 8Replies: 1099Has thanked: 1969 timesBeen thanked: 3922 timesAll girl!
- June 23, 2022 at 4:37 pm #658145
Dianna Rose
Registered On: August 18, 2019Topics: 8Replies: 1099Has thanked: 1969 timesBeen thanked: 3922 timesSweatpants as lingerie?
Yes!
Diane
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- June 22, 2022 at 1:26 pm #655043
Amy Catrelle
LadyRegistered On: January 2, 2022Topics: 11Replies: 258Has thanked: 643 timesBeen thanked: 1165 timesWhile technically ‘anything goes’ in the world of fashion, any woman wearing a bra as if it was a bikini top could be seen as being provocative. Or perhaps absent-minded. x
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- June 22, 2022 at 1:05 pm #655037
Smartina
DuchessRegistered On: December 14, 2017Topics: 0Replies: 64Has thanked: 47 timesBeen thanked: 214 timesBralets or other super-short crop-tops are awesome, but usually need flat abs to pull off. Showing bra in public here is a big nough-nough.
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- June 22, 2022 at 12:16 pm #655030
Jess Secret
LadyRegistered On: February 18, 2021Topics: 15Replies: 620Has thanked: 1529 timesBeen thanked: 2736 timesBras have always been lingerie to me and I’ve never worn one as a fashion accessory nor would I even if I wasn’t closeted.
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- June 22, 2022 at 11:33 am #655025
Lauren Mugnaia
DuchessRegistered On: November 1, 2021Topics: 40Replies: 813Has thanked: 16752 timesBeen thanked: 4890 timesI am at, and seen as, an age where it would not be very appropriate to show off my bra, therefore I am like Holly and will wear a camisole if necessary.
hugs girls,
Lauren M
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- June 22, 2022 at 10:24 am #655015
Araminta Purdy
DuchessRegistered On: January 23, 2020Topics: 11Replies: 509Has thanked: 1128 timesBeen thanked: 1996 times“So my question for you is, do you consider bras to be a fashion accessory so that they’re out in the open on display, or are they lingerie and should be kept somewhat hidden?”
Yes! After all, lingerie is, as are other articles of clothing, elements of fashion and, just as are some other articles of clothing, are sometimes best not seen.
Araminta.
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- June 22, 2022 at 10:13 am #655012
Anonymous
Topics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 timesI think bras could be a fashion accessory. They cover your breasts as well as a bikini top does, and some are quite pretty.
Kerri
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- June 22, 2022 at 9:48 am #655008
Aurora Borealis
DuchessRegistered On: October 25, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 157Has thanked: 496 timesBeen thanked: 493 timesI thinkthat a bra is underwear and shouldnt be flaunted.
I understand that many younger women want to show off, butthe fact is its a bit edgey and can be taken as a signal that a girl or woman is on the available side.
Thats my take on it. Regards, Aurora B.5 users thanked author for this post.
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