- June 16, 2022 at 7:28 am #653430StephParticipantRegistered On: April 9, 2022Topics: 9Replies: 1Has thanked: 23 timesBeen thanked: 95 times
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My boyfriend has never asked me to dress but he is very accepting, supportive and encouraging of me dressing and I wear lingerie to bed almost every night anyway.
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- June 19, 2022 at 6:03 am #654120IssheLadyRegistered On: January 2, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 80Has thanked: 378 timesBeen thanked: 230 times
My wife often asks if I am going to put on some makeup and some of my ‘finery’ in the evenings, to sit and relax with her and have a couple of drinks, maybe watch a film. She even gives me suggestions for what I should be buying next. She’s a real star. X
- June 19, 2022 at 2:53 am #654100Suzanne MartinHostessRegistered On: January 8, 2020Topics: 1Replies: 138Has thanked: 741 timesBeen thanked: 444 times
My wife has never asked me to dress and doesn’t want to see me dressed. That being said, it’s kind of funny, when I get new clothes she will have me try them on so she can make sure they fit right. She says if I am going to dress I may as well look pretty in what I am wearing. I only dress at home in private (with the exception of dressing for some of my therapy sessions – which I don’t think she knows about) but that is how she feels. I appreciate her doing that and she has offered to make alterations if they are needed. She got Suzanne a few things for Christmas and we had a fashion show so she could see how they looked. She also gave me a couple of her old blouses to go with the skirt I got. She also bought a pair of shoes (open toe ankle strap block heel) and when they came she had me try them on and I wore them for a few hours and she was okay with that. Just the other day she gave me some lingerie she doesn’t use anymore. She actually asked me if I would like to have the items before giving them to me. It was nighties, a corset and some stockings. She also had some things she was giving to Goodwill. I went thru them (she doesn’t know I did) and kept a pair of shorts, a pair of jeans and a couple tops.
My hope is that one day she will be comfortable enough to spend time with Suzanne. I think it would be fun to hang out as girlfriends and watch some chick movie.
- June 18, 2022 at 9:17 am #653985Robin SnowDuchessRegistered On: May 7, 2019Topics: 22Replies: 260Has thanked: 2303 timesBeen thanked: 1245 times
An encouraging spouse…. what a novel idea!
When I came out to my wife she said she wanted me to be happy and to wear whatever I feel I need to and she will deal with it. That was 3 year ago and we haven’t really talked much about it since. I wear a few things on a daily basis and she never says a word. I’m afraid to expand my dressing around her for fear she may explode. In the meantime I walk on eggshells.
- June 18, 2022 at 8:41 am #653978Michelle McQueenLadyRegistered On: June 14, 2021Topics: 25Replies: 1298Has thanked: 8119 timesBeen thanked: 6452 times
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- June 17, 2022 at 5:10 am #653706Jocelyn BeyoodyDuchessRegistered On: May 4, 2022Topics: 0Replies: 34Has thanked: 52 timesBeen thanked: 95 times
Since I came out to my wife, she has been unpredictable as the weather. She can be my best girlfriend. I since discovered the pattern. When she needs something of me, she is overly nice. When things are quite she make sneyed remarks during the course of the night. It been more of the later of late. So to answer the question, I wish she would ask for me to dress. Even sit and have a glass of wine. I’m holding out hope things will change.
- June 17, 2022 at 4:41 am #653701Robinette RobbynsBaronessRegistered On: September 27, 2018Topics: 5Replies: 22Has thanked: 428 timesBeen thanked: 196 times
Once in awhile my wife will ask me to put on a bra and panties when it’s time to fool around in bed. She knows I dress but never wants to see me fully dressed though. Go figure.
- June 19, 2022 at 6:30 pm #654295Debbie BurnsLadyRegistered On: February 19, 2022Topics: 0Replies: 51Has thanked: 113 timesBeen thanked: 132 times
What you have there is a big plus. I wish I could have some of what you have, take what you can get and be thankful. If that is what she likes take it and don’t try to figure or push it further. I am very happy for you.
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- June 16, 2022 at 8:34 pm #653645Stephanie BassHostessRegistered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 22Replies: 3605Has thanked: 51965 timesBeen thanked: 12792 times
Hi Steph and yes from time to time wife asks if Stephanie will be here when i get home .. Then she sometimes says go find Stephanie we need to have some girltime its really fun ..
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- June 16, 2022 at 6:48 pm #653629Kendra BeaufordLadyRegistered On: June 16, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 19Has thanked: 56 timesBeen thanked: 55 times
- June 16, 2022 at 5:35 pm #653618Stephanie MacNeilLadyRegistered On: January 31, 2022Topics: 2Replies: 96Has thanked: 235 timesBeen thanked: 470 times
Yes, my wife demands that I dress each day. She is a dominant and it’s an enforced expectation that I do so. She does sometimes call or text before she comes home to make sure I have time to freshen up before I greet her.
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- June 16, 2022 at 2:38 pm #653560Karla RogersDuchessRegistered On: December 30, 2021Topics: 2Replies: 55Has thanked: 47 timesBeen thanked: 216 times
I generally dress in something every day, especially when I get home from work. Just something to relax in without being completely made up. She usually puts a chemise or sleep shirt on the bed for me to wear after dinner to relax in.
I devote one of my days off just for hair removal and dressing up with full make up. There have been days before I start that my wife has said “This looks like a good Karla day”.
When she goes out of town to visit her brother, we talk on the phone each evening. She will always ask “What is Karla wearing this evening?”
She is very accepting, supportive and encouraging.
- June 16, 2022 at 2:26 pm #653558Peggy Sue WilliamsDuchess - AnnualRegistered On: June 26, 2019Topics: 20Replies: 384Has thanked: 1425 timesBeen thanked: 1865 times
My wife is supportive. That being said, she leaves my dressings days up to me, since she knows I balance family responsibilities and my CD desires skillfully. When I tell her I will be dressing today, she always smiles and says something to encourage me.
Before I was married, I had GFs who were well aware of my cross dressing, and a few who were demanding in that they would insist I cross dress, before spending time with them. These were stressful times, because I was concealing my CD from my employer and at the same time trying to satisfy the demands of a GF who insisted I cross dress.
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- June 16, 2022 at 7:39 am #653432MacKenzie AlexandraManaging AmbassadorRegistered On: May 20, 2016Topics: 43Replies: 652Has thanked: 173 timesBeen thanked: 1758 times
I cannot say that my wife has asked me to wear feminine attire. However, she did surprise on our tenth anniversary by decline my offer to change out of the sundress that I was wearing before we sat down for a romantic dinner at home.
- June 16, 2022 at 7:33 am #653431StephaniewyLadyRegistered On: September 24, 2021Topics: 17Replies: 170Has thanked: 688 timesBeen thanked: 945 times
Sometimes if I haven’t been dressed for awhile my wife will ask where “where is stephanie, is she coming out today?” Always makes me feel good
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