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- April 19, 2021 at 3:44 pm #481254Anonymous
Today when my SO got home from work I noticed the Skirt she was wearing, I thought it was attractive and after thinking about it I said to her “ that’s a pretty skirt, I like it” She replied her thanks and then she said “ And no you can’t have it” Just that little playful remark made my day. Ever so slowly she’s coming around. 💕💋 Katie
- April 19, 2021 at 5:47 pm #481285
Do be weary. Don’t mean to be pessimistic but my wife has made many comments like that, giving me hope.
She was really only “joking”, and was in no way serious or had begun to change her mind about things.
Let’s hope for the best!
- April 20, 2021 at 12:05 am #481359Anonymous
Rebekka,
I applaud your discreet and compassionate reply, thank you.
We often find some exhilaration when ” off the cuff” positive suggestive remarks are made. I believe you are right that these are made in pleasant jest. I imagine the real test is when they occur more frequently and you sense a tease. Your reply is justly appreciated, thank you.
And yes, as any true friend would say… ” let’s hope for the best”.
Sincere wishes,
Anya
- May 1, 2021 at 6:28 am #486262
Thanks Anya!
Love the name!
- April 20, 2021 at 3:39 am #481420
I have been taking baby steps with my SO for awhile now. She’s ok with my dressing but certain items such as skirts and dresses, she’s just not ready for. So if I want to wear them I have to take them with me so I can change…
I hope you the best on this journey.
❤Tonya
- This reply was modified 2 years ago by Tonya Leren. Reason: Typo
- April 21, 2021 at 1:10 pm #482033
Fantastic! Have patience with her. It’s a big change for her too. Give it time. My wife, once very against my dressing actually bought me a dress last night. It’s only been two months for me.
💖👠🥃
- April 22, 2021 at 6:47 am #482276Anonymous
Wow Eona, that’s fantastic and it gives me hope also. I’ve a dream about my wife and I going shopping together. 💕💋 Katie
- April 21, 2021 at 6:24 pm #482115
It can take time and there are no guarantees. I lucked out with my wife. She is very supportive, though she wasn’t initially. All you can do is give it time and let her come around in her time. It sounds like that’s what you’re doing.
- April 22, 2021 at 6:50 am #482278Anonymous
Thanks Diana, I went a little crazy when I first came out to her and ended up overwhelming her. Lesson learned I’m going super slow now. 💕💋 Katie
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