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      Heather Harrison
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      Registered On: August 3, 2020
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      Welcome back home Carrie. The fact that the two of you are talking is a wonderful step. If I can help don’t hesitate to contact me.

       

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      Teralynn Loving
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      Hi Carrie, Teralynn here. Welcome to CDH. Sounds like you are in for a rough journey with a wife that is not accepting or supportive! There is always a possibility that at some point down the road she will see how much crossdressing means to you and have a change of heart. The Vegas odds on that are not good but it isn’t completely impossible! Purging all your feminine attire is also not likely to curb your desire to crossdress! All it may accomplish, is you having to replace all the items you love to wear at a later date! I noticed on your profile page a comment about whether or not it was wrong to be confused about being trans! If you are born in a male body and suddenly find yourself attracted to feminine clothing or even attracted to the idea of having feminine feelings it is only natural to be a little confused about such things but we feel what we feel. There is no wrong or right about it. It just is! There are many valid reasons why people crossdress and none of them make you a weird, crazy or evil person. But there are plenty of persons on this planet, including your wife, who think that crossdressing is wrong! You might even have some negative feelings about it yourself. Will that make you stop? Survey says- no it won’t! At some point the urge will get the best of you and you will start again! It may be a month or years down the road, but if there is a feminine part of you that needs to be recognized, then eventually it will be! Here at CDH you will find lots of friendly crossdressing people who understand what you are going through! A lot of them have been through similar circumstances! So no matter how your spouse feels about your crossdressing, know that your CDH sisters are here to support you. By the way try to not think too badly of your wife! She married a man and may have real difficulty in coming to an understanding of how a real man can also have a feminine part that needs to be expressed! If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall will get the fastest response. – Blessings

       

       

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      Tabitha Tee
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      Welcome back, Carrie. I wish you the best in your journey.

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      Jenny Jones
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      Welcome back and good luck moving forward. Taking it slow is probably the best bet, there’s no need to rush anything. Glad to hear things seem to be looking up.

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      Michelle Newman
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      Welcome back Carrie!

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      Alice Underwire
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      Hi Carrie,

      Welcome back to CDH.

      Alice

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      Anonymous
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      Hello Carrie, welcome to CDH…

      I hope you and your wife can work it out. My girlfriend has been with me since I started CD’ing in 2003. When she needs male me, Natasha cannot come out. But there are many days she enjoys Natasha’s company. She likes to go out with Natasha as BFF. Its such a great feeling. I am truly grateful to have such a wonderful SO. So, I do hope you and your wife can work this out. Chin up… Natasha

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      Stephanie Bass
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      Hi Carrie nice to meet you and ive been here a bit but we never met before you left so we can fix that now . Yes im sorry for you and hope you and your wife can come to some agreement and some boundries that will be helpful for Carrie to be around .As we all know she cant go away she is in your heart and mind  sorry about the purge its never good and you will never replace items you loved . Im one of the lucky ones been married 37 years came out to wife within months after marrige and with a lot of conversation with boundries set we have had a great life as hubby and wife  girlfriend and wife but as we say here baby steps and lots of conversations slow and easy wins this race  . Maybe not a win but within limits from wife Carrie can co  live with you and have fun .Good luck pm if you need to chat anytime and again nice to meet you .

      Stephanie Bass

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      Stephanie Roberts
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      Hi Carrie,

      Welcome back to CDH!!! Wishing that you and your wife can work things out.

      Really nice to meet you.

      Regards, Stephanie ❤️

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      Bettylou Cox
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      Hi Carrie, and welcome back.  I think that most wives  tolerate our femme life, more than actually accept it; but an honest conversation about the subject can result in lead to a compromise acceptable to you both.  My own wife thinks it is wrong for a man to wear a dress, but we have come to an agreement where she sets boundaries and I honor them, to our mutual benefit.  It is much better than hiding in the closet, with fear of being caught.  I hope you two will be able to find that middle ground.

      Hugs,

      Bettylou

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      Anonymous
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      Welcome back, Carrie.

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      Janene Smith
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      I hope you can find the best of both worlds, Hugs

      Janene

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      Stephanie Flowers
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      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      Carrie  welcome back girl..  Sorry in hearing about your wife and her feelings towards your dressing. But good news she’s willing to talk about it. It’s a start and I’m wishing you the best. I too have experience this early in my dressing as she in her dealings with me. 38 years of marriage when I opened up to my wife . Dicey at first but our talking help us and slowly she has been supportive but with caution. Boundaries were discussed and agreements were met. It’s a long journey and we are her with you and supportive in every way. Very nice meeting you…

      Hugs…

      Stephanie 🌹

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      Kay Anderson
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      Hi Carrie,

      Welcome back and nice to meet you. Good luck moving ahead.

      Wishing you the best!

      Kay

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