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      Terri Anne
      Registered On: February 7, 2018
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      Hello Brenda,

      Welcome to our amazing CrossDresserHeaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

      The Warmth, Compaasion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrosDresser Heaven.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages.  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

      Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat, Groups, etc.




      Terri Anne, Ambassador


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      Liara Wolfe
      Registered On: August 14, 2021
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      Welcome to CDH.

      Hugs, Liara

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      Fredrika Jones
      Registered On: February 24, 2021
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      Hi – welcome to CDH! I’m glad to hear you sounding so together – all the best! This is a great site – lots of wisdom here.
      Big Welcome Hug and Kiss,
      Fredrika Jones

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      Hello Brenda,
      I completely understand what you are going through, I myself am tormented by similar thoughts. I just destroyed all my beautiful clothes. I repeat these destructions regularly, thinking to free myself with my desires, but in vain. I only have regrets left. I wish I was strong enough not to do this anymore.
      Kind regards,

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        Brenda Kay
        Registered On: April 27, 2022
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        Hi Denise

        thanks for the welcome. I too have purged clothes a couple times for various reasons. Perhaps something that may be somewhat common, not sure but I can agree it can be a bit frustrating after the fact.

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      Lara Tucker
      Baroness - Annual
      Registered On: September 29, 2021
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      Hi Brenda

      Welcome to CDH!


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      Suzanne Martin
      Registered On: January 8, 2020
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      Brenda –

      Welcome to CDH.  You’ve come to the right place for advice and to share your journey.



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      Welcome Brenda, I think you will enjoy it here. Feel free to contact me if you need any thing. Hugs&Kisses 🤗💋 Amber

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      Welcome Brenda, I think you will enjoy it here. Feel free to contact me if you need any thing. Hugs&Kisses 🤗💋 Amber

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      Iris Shine
      Registered On: March 8, 2022
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      Welcome Brenda and welcome,
      I hope you find what you are looking for here. For me it worked and i feel more confident and happy, mainly by sharing and listening to other members stories as you mentioned.
      Iris 💋

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      Chrissy Simpson
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: January 14, 2022
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      Hello and welcome Brenda.  This is a great site and a lot of forums to read to help you out.  Enjoy them and making friends. I am glad you are happier.


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      Stephanie Flowers
      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      Brenda welcome. It’s wonderful to have you here with us in this wonderful community . Enjoy browsing through many of our well written forums, read about stories of others learn more on     as they journey through their experiences. Many here to meet , talk with and for some develop wonderful friendships. A caring place I hope you enjoy being part of. Very nice meeting you


      Stephanie 🌹




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      Stephanie Bass
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hi Brenda nice meeting you and so happy for you girl that you have a supportive wife who accepts you so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Many here have supportive wifes or SOs as myself included  .. So much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies telling there stories about there femme travels down there road in life .. As for you girl looking forward to a story or two from the girly travels of Brenda as she starts her journey in life .. As for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with.. Again nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime..

      Stephanie Bass

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      Jane Mansfield
      Registered On: December 27, 2020
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      Good morning Brenda, spiriting yourself away, and hiding yourself is always an issue for CD’s. We punish and purge, until one day we realize that we have been hurting ourselves.
      Telling family and friends is a relief, with some risk.
      Be true to yourself. I have and now family, and work colleagues know.
      No shocks, and a better me.
      Congrats to you on joining our group of caring and giving gals.
      Love to read about your experiences.
      Best Wishes

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      Alice Underwire
      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Brenda,

      Welcome to CDH.


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    • #642127
      Paulette Parfois
      Registered On: November 17, 2021
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      Hi Brenda, and welcome for a former Washingtonian now living in Arizona (the rain finally got to me after forty-five years living in the PNW)! From your introduction and profile it is apparent you are in a ‘discovery mode’, but then as you will also learn those of us (including seniors like me) are also discovering ourselves daily, especially once we have unlocked our feminine side. In fact, I like to think of what we are doing as being on a ‘journey’, where the experiences we encounter during the trip are just as rewarding as reaching the destination I wish you well in your personal journey of discovery and look forward to hearing more about it. Hugs, Paulette

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    • #642126
      Tara Ryan
      Registered On: April 20, 2021
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      Hi Brenda,

      Welcome, it is lovely to meet you.  I hope you make lots of new friends and gain the confidence you seek.

      I am happy to keep in touch, please feel free to message me anytime.


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