- April 29, 2022 at 12:37 pm #642118Brenda KayParticipantRegistered On: April 27, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 1Has thanked: 15 timesBeen thanked: 29 times
I joined CDH with the intention to build confidence and a greater appreciation for who i am as a kind of new crossdresser and live it proudly instead of obsessing over the questions and sheltering it away. For as long as i can remember I’ve had lingering thoughts and questions regarding my gender and finally acting upon them has made me so much happier. I look forward to sharing my story and listening to others as well as learning and gaining a greater understanding and confidence within my journey as a crossdresser and beyond.
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- May 13, 2022 at 12:46 pm #644990Terri AnneAmbassadorRegistered On: February 7, 2018Topics: 34Replies: 1638Has thanked: 2275 timesBeen thanked: 3312 times
Welcome to our amazing CrossDresserHeaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.
The Warmth, Compaasion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.
Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrosDresser Heaven.
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- May 2, 2022 at 4:44 pm #642717Fredrika JonesLadyRegistered On: February 24, 2021Topics: 1Replies: 533Has thanked: 629 timesBeen thanked: 1894 times
- May 2, 2022 at 11:52 am #642653AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
I completely understand what you are going through, I myself am tormented by similar thoughts. I just destroyed all my beautiful clothes. I repeat these destructions regularly, thinking to free myself with my desires, but in vain. I only have regrets left. I wish I was strong enough not to do this anymore.
- May 4, 2022 at 4:47 pm #643147Brenda KayLadyRegistered On: April 27, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 1Has thanked: 15 timesBeen thanked: 29 times
thanks for the welcome. I too have purged clothes a couple times for various reasons. Perhaps something that may be somewhat common, not sure but I can agree it can be a bit frustrating after the fact.
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- May 2, 2022 at 2:24 am #642591Suzanne MartinHostessRegistered On: January 8, 2020Topics: 9Replies: 806Has thanked: 7572 timesBeen thanked: 3412 times
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- May 2, 2022 at 12:48 am #642584AnonymousTopics: 0Replies: 0Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 0 times
Welcome Brenda, I think you will enjoy it here. Feel free to contact me if you need any thing. Hugs&Kisses 🤗💋 Amber
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- May 1, 2022 at 11:50 pm #642580Iris ShineLadyRegistered On: March 8, 2022Topics: 3Replies: 47Has thanked: 93 timesBeen thanked: 205 times
Welcome Brenda and welcome,
I hope you find what you are looking for here. For me it worked and i feel more confident and happy, mainly by sharing and listening to other members stories as you mentioned.
- April 30, 2022 at 11:31 am #642241Chrissy SimpsonDuchess - AnnualRegistered On: January 14, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 284Has thanked: 1670 timesBeen thanked: 869 times
- April 30, 2022 at 5:15 am #642193Stephanie FlowersAmbassadorRegistered On: June 26, 2017Topics: 35Replies: 7047Has thanked: 16853 timesBeen thanked: 15249 times
Brenda welcome. It’s wonderful to have you here with us in this wonderful community . Enjoy browsing through many of our well written forums, read about stories of others learn more on as they journey through their experiences. Many here to meet , talk with and for some develop wonderful friendships. A caring place I hope you enjoy being part of. Very nice meeting you
- April 29, 2022 at 5:44 pm #642161Stephanie BassHostessRegistered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 30Replies: 4991Has thanked: 73641 timesBeen thanked: 17470 times
Hi Brenda nice meeting you and so happy for you girl that you have a supportive wife who accepts you so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Many here have supportive wifes or SOs as myself included .. So much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies telling there stories about there femme travels down there road in life .. As for you girl looking forward to a story or two from the girly travels of Brenda as she starts her journey in life .. As for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with.. Again nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime..
- April 29, 2022 at 4:00 pm #642153Jane MansfieldLadyRegistered On: December 27, 2020Topics: 4Replies: 318Has thanked: 645 timesBeen thanked: 1123 times
Good morning Brenda, spiriting yourself away, and hiding yourself is always an issue for CD’s. We punish and purge, until one day we realize that we have been hurting ourselves.
Telling family and friends is a relief, with some risk.
Be true to yourself. I have and now family, and work colleagues know.
No shocks, and a better me.
Congrats to you on joining our group of caring and giving gals.
Love to read about your experiences.
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- April 29, 2022 at 1:29 pm #642127Paulette ParfoisDuchessRegistered On: November 17, 2021Topics: 2Replies: 783Has thanked: 3687 timesBeen thanked: 3089 times
Hi Brenda, and welcome for a former Washingtonian now living in Arizona (the rain finally got to me after forty-five years living in the PNW)! From your introduction and profile it is apparent you are in a ‘discovery mode’, but then as you will also learn those of us (including seniors like me) are also discovering ourselves daily, especially once we have unlocked our feminine side. In fact, I like to think of what we are doing as being on a ‘journey’, where the experiences we encounter during the trip are just as rewarding as reaching the destination I wish you well in your personal journey of discovery and look forward to hearing more about it. Hugs, Paulette
- April 29, 2022 at 1:22 pm #642126Tara RyanLadyRegistered On: April 20, 2021Topics: 4Replies: 525Has thanked: 1790 timesBeen thanked: 1961 times
Welcome, it is lovely to meet you. I hope you make lots of new friends and gain the confidence you seek.
I am happy to keep in touch, please feel free to message me anytime.
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