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    Clarice Foster
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    Registered On: July 4, 2021
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    First, I need to thank this amazing group of girls here. If this helps even one more of us come out to our wife/partner etc. I will feel even more on top of the world.

    My wife’s best friends are a married lesbian couple.  They suggested a show on HBO called we’re here. For those of us not familiar with it; it is a traveling group of drag queens that put on a show in different towns.  The show is about changing the lives of those they meet.

    After a few episodes I got up the nerve to ask my wife to go to the “winter is a drag ball” in Burlington Vermont. To my surprise she is excited to go.this Saturday night my wife was out with a friend and I told her I was going to practice my make up. She told me to have fun! Then I asked if she wanted to see a picture while she was out… She said yes and then replied I looked GREAT!!!

    SHE THEN CAME HOME TO ME FOR THE FIRST TIME WHEN I WAS FULLY DRESSED. CORSET, MINISKIRT, FISHNETS, HEELS, FORMS ETC…

    And wait it gets better….

    She then helped me with my make up while I was dressed.

    What an amazing experience and future from a simple suggestion from a TV show.

    Hugz

     

    Out and about

    Clarice

     

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    • #617062
      Clarice Foster
      Lady
      Registered On: July 4, 2021
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      Thank you for all the lovely comments from our amazing group. I was worried as many of you mentioned if this would be a one time drag ball event or would my wife be supportive. A quick backstory here first. My wife is amazing at shopping for clothes and then donating to goodwill. So we always have a goodwill bag going. The night I practiced my make up I wore a tank top of hers from the goodwill bag. When I got home from work on Saturday my wife had done a load of laundry for me. Folded up with all of my boi clothes was her tank top for me!!!! If that isn’t acceptance without me having to ask I don’t know what is.
      Thank you again for this amazing group of girls.

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    • #616384
      Dee Nash
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      Registered On: November 7, 2021
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      Brilliant xxx

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    • #616351
      Ginger Chasquear
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      Registered On: January 26, 2022
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      Congrats Clarise!,

      I am new to CDH and am looking for help in making my wife aware of my dressing. I am so impressed with your courage, something I don’t have at this time but hopefully can learn from strong girls like you!

       

      ❤️❤️Ginger

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    • #615674
      Anonymous
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      I came out to my second wife and it was basically the beginning of the end.  Our sexy life was all but over and in a year we had separated and divorced

      makes it hard to come out again.

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    • #615557
      Michaela Anthony
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      Registered On: December 29, 2021
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      Congrats Clarice!  I’m sure you two will have a wonderful time at the ball.  I’ll echo the advice that if you’ve not done so yet, do use the window around this occassion to communicate to your wife what your CD’ing desires are beyond the present.  Looks like you’ve got an initial buy-in already so good luck and knock ’em dead at the ball!

      ** Kayla **

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    • #615520
      Carol
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      Registered On: December 21, 2021
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      Hi Clarice.

      How wonderful an experience that must have been. You have such a lovly wife. Here’s to a pit more experiences like that.

      Love Carol. ❤️

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    • #615453
      Yvette Novack
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      Registered On: October 31, 2020
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      How wonderful for you hope you both have a great time. Hugs and kisses.

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    • #615376
      Anonymous
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      You are a very lucky girl

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    • #615375
      Lacy Satin
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      Registered On: June 27, 2018
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      You must feel on top of the world right now. How exciting for you!!

      May I ask? Is your wife bisexual by chance?  Have you ever discussed with her before about being with another girl?

      I have found that a lot of women have at least a curiosity of being with another woman but may never act on it. My wife being one of them.  When they discover that the man in their life likes to crossdress they are much more open to at least having fun with it in the bedroom.

      My wife has never had a problem with me sleeping in or having sex in lingerie. She only once went out with me when I was fully dressed but she has never had a problem with me feminizing myself. I’m allowed to wear feminine undergarments daily and dress up whenever I feel the desire. She also will give me the time and space to fully feminize myself and go to crossdressing events.

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    • #615241
      Abbie Normal
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      Registered On: June 13, 2021
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      Congrats Clarice,

      sounds like nice progress and an event to go to! Hard to beat. There is a drag race event coming here in the Summer (pandemic permitting) and my wife and I are planning to go (as Abbie). So looking forward to it.

      — Abbie 🥰

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    • #615233
      Sylvia
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      Registered On: October 10, 2021
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      Dear Clarice ,

      SO happy for you Girl !
      Hope this is the start for you for more opportunities
      like that in the future.
      Maybe post a picture next to your Halloween
      outfit photo on your profile page , would really
      love to see your outfit !

      Love Sylvia.

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    • #615230
      Angela Booth
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      Registered On: August 1, 2020
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      What a lovely response. I hope it all goes well for you and a springboard for greater things.

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    • #615205
      Leah
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      Registered On: June 13, 2018
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      Thanks for sharing. Glad your wife is being supportive and encouraging !!

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    • #615180
      Julie (Jules) Anderson
      Duchess
      Registered On: February 9, 2021
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      Congrats, Clarice! I’m so happy for you!
      However, I disagree that you are a “lucky” girl…
      I’d rather say you are a “blessed” girl.
      And you are a blessed girl because you were being your authentic self, and also because your wife, the woman you choose to love and marry, has compassion, tolerance, a sense of adventure, and all the other values that has allowed her to be “open” to your CD, so far.

      Remember, this is all new to her, so be a good listener to her thoughts or concerns, and do not rush things, as much as you may want to, as already you are in a position that many here can only dream of.

      Good luck and may God bless you, your wife, and where ever this new path may lead you.
      Hugs
      Jules

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    • #615166
      Liara Wolfe
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      Registered On: August 14, 2021
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      So lucky.

      Hugs, LIara

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    • #615162
      Sally Zarcae
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      Registered On: July 23, 2021
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      Hi Clarice,

      that is amazing and like me you are one of the lucky ones. It takes so much pressure off your relationship when you are honest and tell your SO. No more hiding and so much more trust between you both as it is a big thing to admit to, especially if it’s a long relationship like mine of 30 years.

      Big hugs and congratulations. Enjoy.

      Sally

      xxx

       

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      • #616356
        Ginger Chasquear
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        Registered On: January 26, 2022
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        Hi Sally like Clarice you are someone of courage I aspire to be like. I am so anxiously desperate to discuss with my wife but am scared and just don’t know how to broach the subject. You are an inspiration!

         

        ❤️❤️Ginger

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        • #616418
          Sally Zarcae
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          Registered On: July 23, 2021
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          Hi Ginger,

          it’s a very hard thing to do and it’s different for everyone, the only advice is, if you do, go very gently and be very patient. You will get a lot of questions and some of the questions you may not like but remember if they have no idea it’s a big thing for them to accept. When I look back I made light of the CD to my SO when I started to introduce her to Sally. It made the process much easier. I also went over the top with hugs, kissing and affection to show her how much I love her. Something we have kept going, so that’s a bonus.

          Good luck Ginger

          Sally

          xxx

           

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    • #615155
      Cerys Burton
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      Registered On: February 2, 2021
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      Have you told her that this is not just a one off outfit for the ball, and that you like to dress as a woman? It sounds like she will be supportive if you haven’t.
      If you haven’t, maybe at the ball, or on the way home, you might want to say that you like it and would like to dress as a woman more often.Tell her how great it makes you feel.

      Cerys.

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    • #615146
      Anonymous
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      Congratulations Clarice!  I am so excited for you.  I hope this is just the beginning of you sharing Clarice with your wife.  I hope you have fun at the Ball.

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    • #615145
      Dani Grand
      Baroness
      Registered On: October 9, 2018
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      Lucky girl!! Enjoy it!

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    • #615138
      Jamie Taal
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      Registered On: June 14, 2019
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      That’s awesome! Have fun with it.

      Does she know you CD or does she possibly think this is a one time lark and doesn’t expect it to continue past this one event? Just curious.

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    • #615102
      Julie Shaw
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      Registered On: September 3, 2015
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      So happy for you, Sweetie.  Word of warning – my wife was very supportive and participated early on, but I went over board to the point that she commented that she would like to see the man she married once in a while.  Now she’s a “Go ahead, but not with me” wife.

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    • #615093
      Raquel Smith
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      Registered On: August 26, 2021
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      Clarice, that’s fantastic!  Cheers to you for coming out to her and cheers to your wonderful wife for being so supportive!

       

      Much love,

      Raquel

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    • #615071
      Anonymous
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      Thanks for that.

      Jealous now!

      Seriously, what a wonderful experience.

      Connie
      xxx

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    • #615070
      Samantha Jo
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      Registered On: April 3, 2021
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      Hi Clarice

      Thank you for sharing your wonderful experience with your wife and I hope you both enjoy yourselves.

      Samantha x

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    • #615060
      Stephanie Bass
      Hostess
      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hi Clarice nice to meet you and as for having a supportive wife thats awesome and help you with makeup thats just wonderful as gg women can do makeup so well years of practice i guess ha ha .. as myself also having a very supportive wife she helps with suggestions on clothing and hair style but on my own on makeup as she dosent wear much and as she says im much better at it than she is ha ha ..congrats girl keep it going and have girly fun..

      Stephanie Bass

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    • #615049
      Requal Joanne
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      Registered On: December 15, 2020
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      It makes our lives so much more enjoyable when we are able to share our dressing with our wives and SO’s.

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    • #615025
      Michelle Doherty
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      Registered On: January 1, 2022
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      Hi Clarice

      I am sooo happy and excited for you.

      I love reading these courageous stories.

      Love
      Michelle

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    • #615018
      Brielle Ross
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      Registered On: August 14, 2021
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      Hi Clarice,

      What a wonderful story! I wish all of us had such receptive and loving spouses to embrace what we are!!

      Pass along our thanks to her for her embracing of your feminine side.

      Hugs to you both!

      Brielle

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    • #615016
      Lara Tucker
      Lady
      Registered On: September 29, 2021
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      Congratulations on living the dream!! What a sweet wife!

      Have a great time at the Winter Is A Drag ball,

      💕Lara

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    • #615013
      Alice Underwire
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      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Clarice,

      Congratulations on being able to open up to your wife to share more of yourself.  Enjoy “the Winter is a Drag Ball.”

      Alice

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