Would you get dressed and sneak into bed next to your SO?

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    • #584312
      Jess Secret
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      No need to sneak into bed in my case since I have a boyfriend who is extremely supportive and lets me wear whatever I want to bed, which is usually beautiful/romantic/bridal lingerie & sleepwear. He likes to be awake to see me emerge from the bathroom to see what I wear to bed that night. I just love being with a guy, makes me feel so girly.

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      Ashley Konners
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      Before I came out to my wife I use to put on pantyhose before bed and either get under the covers before her or after she fell asleep. It didn’t take long before she touched my leg with her foot and noticed I was wearing pantyhose.

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      Lacy Satin
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      I have!  It was a little scary but also very exciting at the same time.

      My wife’s nightgown drawer was in a drawer in the pedestal of our bed and on my side of the bed. I woke up in the middle of the night and she was sound asleep and I couldn’t resist reaching into the drawer and pulling out one of her nighties and putting it on.

      Wearing a nightie in front of her for the first time was quite exciting even though she was sound asleep.

      I didn’t get caught but in time I did tell her about it and from that time on I’ve been allowed to wear nightgowns to bed.

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      Wendy Me
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      Didn’t do it when our kids still lived here, after they moved out I didn’t have to worry as I told her about my crossdressing before we got married and she was fine with it with discretion.

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      Emily
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      At the present time, my answer is no. I have however in the past done that. Just had to be sure I got out of bed first in the morning.

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    • #582375
      Michaela Jane
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      I always did, wifey liked us to dress alike, such as blue jeans & same coloured sweatshirts. Bed time made it easy for me to wear femme pj’s the same as hers. Rest her soul, she was a keeper.

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    • #582367
      Lea
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      Hello Monday! Slept in a padded bra all night next to the SO, and slept so well.  Didn’t anxiously wake up, slept soundly with the comfort of the pads pressing against me. Wore it under pjs, even sat through breakfast with the family. I feel so terrific, so natural. Ready for the week!!

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    • #570106
      Joanne Jackson
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      Yes!
      Every night.  No sneaking necessary.

      Majority of my clothes come from the women’s dept now as i slowly replace everything drab.   A night dress and panties are standard sleepwear now.

      I think it helps that my taste in clothing is rather conservative  and I revealed Joanne little by little so she had time to adjust to the real me and realize she’s been married to Joanne the whole time.

      Thanks for asking.
      -Joanne

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      Laura Lovett
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      Generally, if I “sneak” something, it’s a nightie.

      I then deal with the ensuing, rather unecessary, fallout and try to turn it into the discussion we ought to be having, but she avoids at all costs.

      Some tension keeps the spring wound and the wheels moving.

      Love Laura

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      Katie Time
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      Too much fallout, caught me wearing panties to bed, it was not good.

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      Amiliah Rougeheart
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      I have gone to bed a few times in women’s underwear and top. Without sneaking into bed.

      But most the time I sleep in male underwear and a T-shirt or a normal pair of pajamas.

      My wife doesn’t approve of me cross dressing or my sexuality even though she herself is bisexual and likes loose fitting male garments, that se wears once in a while, clothing which can be considered cross dressing.

      And she has caught  me a handful of times and it usually causes a fight. But I will dress every chance I get and periodically will still sneak in to bed in panties or stockings and a female shirt.

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      Abbie Normal
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      Every night, though there isn’t much sneaking about it… I do sneak the breast forms in after the lights go out though. Those are just for me at the moment.

      — Abbie 🥰

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      Michelle Trott
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      Yes I have and yes I would again. It is sometimes very exciting

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      PrincessByDawn
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      Although, currently I am free, as in beer, I have never tried anything like this earlier as well. It wouldn’t have gone well, anyway 😅

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      Rozalyne Richards
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      I’ve said NO for the simple reason my wife doesn’t know anything about my crossdressing life,

      I think she would have a fit if i got into bed in a nightie or wearing women’s underwear,

      Hugs Roz X

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    • #566973
      Heather Jameson
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      NOOOOO, this would cause a great disturbance in the force and a lot of unnecessary friction and uncomfortable situation. She tolerates she does not like or want to see.

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      Elizabeth
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      Would love to do it but my wife would have a fit

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      Cherry Berry
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      I’m not married, but if I was, probably yes.

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    • #562681
      Jin Crocker
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      One of our favorite role playing games, we pretend to be strangers isolated in a country inn by a storm with not enough rooms to go around. Musical beds is the result.

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    • #562526
      Dani Grand
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      I’m very daring. But, that is not something that would work in my situation.

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      Lucinda Hawkns
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      i said no for the reason that my wife knows i dress up but will not have me dressed up while in bed or sitting in same room as her

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    • #562520
      Emily Lace
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      No sneaking for me. I sleep in panties and a t-shirt each night next to my wife. She knows and is not bothered by it.

      Hugs,

      Emily

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        Stephaniewy
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        Agreeing with Emily.  Not much sneaking going on here. Since I told my wife and she is supportive,  we go to bed and often I am in a cami or a babydoll nightie,  with or without panties.  In the morning for our coffee I usually change into different panties, bra pantyhose and satin robe.

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      • #562527
        Dani Grand
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        Exactly right. No need for sneaking when it part of you.

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        • #569205
          Jane Mansfield
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          My wife and I are as one when it comes to sleeping. Whatever makes you comfy. Satin pjs, winter long pjs, panties as dedired.
          It makes for a loving bed.

          JANE

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    • #562330
      Stephanie Bass
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      Hi Lea nice to meet you and i said yes because im out to my very supportive wife as i sleep every night in panties a silky nightgown and red lipstick  wife is so supportive just love her so much ..

      Stephanie Bass

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    • #562303
      Debbie Lynn
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      Oh heavens yes! It’s panties every night to bed. My wife doesn’t give this a second thought.

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      Jenny Thigh High
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      I sort of did once. I got into bed once with my guy, while wearing suspender pantyhose.

      He was not attracted to crossdressers, so I hadn’t told him that I liked to dress. I just couldn’t resist the urge this time though, while he slept.

      He woke up eventually. He was surprised, but we then we had fun 🙂

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      • #561946
        Lea
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        Thank you Jenny!!  So many subtleties in your post hint at a very different perspective!!

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    • #561878
      Chloé Rian
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      I sleep in panties almost every night. In fact, my wife commented last night about “getting my sleeping panties on” ha ha.

      I’m extremely lucky in that I’ve been in bed with her a couple times for pre-sleeping activities fully dressed in lingerie, makeup & wig. It sort of just happened the first time and we’ve done it a couple times since.

      -Chloé

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    • #561857
      Kristen Smithly
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      I sleep in a nightie, usually one my wife has picked out or purchased for me, so it’s not sneaking into bed dressed, it’s more like, “Honey, wear this one, it’s nice on you.”

       

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    • #561784
      Caty Ryan
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      We are both lousy sleepers and have not been in the same bed, (or room for that matter), for years.

      With the exception of hot Australian summer nights, I sleep fully femme every night, with bra, breast forms, panties and cami. Summer  time ,silk nightie over the above. Winter, warm pj’s and 40 denier tights for my arthritic knees.

      Caty.

      PS (Edit). I should have added that my beloved knows about Caty, but “does not want to know”. So its all DADT (Dont Ask Dont Tell) in these ‘ere parts

       

       

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    • #561697
      sandy powell
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      no need to sneak into bed, after an evening dressed, I change into my nighty and snuggle with my SO. In the morning, coffee and a light breakfast before getting ready fo the day.

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    • #561676
      Autumn Valiant
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      Hi Lea,

      I couldn’t do it. My wife is a sound sleeper, but I wouldn’t risk it.

      Hugs

      Autumn

       

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      • #561947
        Lea
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        I first was scared, but started with a little underdressing under my pjs, then slowly lifting my shirt for a few minutes, and so on.  It is thrilling though.

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    • #561628
      Sandra
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      I would but it would break the boundary agreement we have. I do manage to get away with a little lingerie now and then nothing to saucy though.

      x Sandra x

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    • #561580
      Wendy Swift
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      I don’t have to sneak into bed fully transformed, my wife knows and at times we’ve slept together with me fully transformed as Wendy.

       

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      Patty Phose
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      I sleep in pantyhose and lingerie all the time.

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      Rasa Born
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      It’s not really daring to me. My SO knows and I do it all the time.

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    • #561526
      Sarah Lane
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      I did a couple of times. My wife is a night owl so a couple of times when I knew I had a early wake up call I would wear my nighty. Was exciting and scary at the same time. Now I am out to my wife I get to wear my nighty every night to bed.

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    • #561504
      Jillian F
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      Lots of variables that need to be answered and would cause different answers. For example, if the spouse already knows you CD and could care less, then why would they care.

       

      Basically, these statistics would be skewed by a lot of subsets within the sample on the site…

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      Jamie Williams
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      I did this a couple of times when I was still married. I went to bed with panties underneath my shorts. Then took off the shorts after she had turned off the light. Actually got up in the middle of the night to use the toilet and didn’t put my shorts back on. But she was still asleep.

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      • #561502
        Lea
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        Thanks for sharing!!  I’ve worn a bra and full lingerie…. fell asleep a few times, woke up before she did, haven’t been caught..lol

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      Lea
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      I would, I have, I just did

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