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      I came out to a friend a week and a half ago. She was very accepting and supportive as I knew she would be. I told her that I decided to tell her because I trusted her to keep it private. Today, I came out to another friend with a twist.

      First of all, it was a guy this time. He’s a very masculine guy in profession and socially. But I know him well and I knew he would be accepting and supportive. My icebreaker was the same. I opened with my being aware that I am a lesbian in a male body and I have embraced that for the past 30 years. The major difference this time was that I deliberately never said anything about keeping it a secret. I didn’t tell him to shout it from the rooftops. But I did say that I was coming out because I figured it would get around sooner or later. Who knows how far the grapevine goes with this. At least, I know my parents and siblings won’t hear because they are all 700+ miles away. It feels good. I’m glad to be getting it out there.

    • #421874

      Mission accomplished then Mika. While girls might specialize, guys love spreading a juicy piece of gossip as well.

      • #421910

        Yeah, as far as keeping it a secret anymore, I’ve run out of F@!%’s to give. I can’t hide my long nails forever (they’re getting REALLY long) and I want to shape my eyebrows more.

        • #421919

          It seems eventually most people like us get to zero f***s to give level, you’ve just gotten there a little quicker than most, well done I say.

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          Anonymous

          Well done just be yourself

    • #421945
      Cassie Jayson
      Duchess

      Way to go Mika!!   Start with a few persons you are pretty sure will be accepting, then slowly build your confidence.  Soon maybe you will get to the point to tell someone who your not at all confident will accept you.

      Hopefully when you do run across the first person who is disapproving it won’t be a hugely negative result.

      Keep on keeping on.  Keep us all posted, we are all here for you!!

      Sandy

      • #422437

        Thanks, Sandy. I figure it will happen soon enough. My nails are getting really long and pretty. I’ve already thinned my eyebrows and I want to shape them up some more. So, eventually, people are going to start asking questions and I’m just gonna tell ‘em. I know there will be plenty of negative responses but I really don’t care. It just weeds out the people that I don’t need in my life anyway.

    • #423541

      That’s awesome, Mika! I haven’t gotten down to zero F’s to give yet, just as well the wife would have a fit. But I’m really encouraged by your steps taken.

      Glad I proof read that, autocorrect changed “steps” to “steroids”, which is not the same conversation at all…

      Bridgette vS

      • #424432

        Lol. Yep, autocorrect can get me in trouble if I’m not careful. Even though I don’t have anymore F’s to give, I am guessing that my wife wouldn’t want her side of the family finding out. They’re strongly far right. Honestly, though, I’m not planning on my parents ever finding out either. Perhaps, I only have one F to give. But they live so far away and I don’t see them often. I can let my eyebrows grow back in ahead of time and cut my nails.

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