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      Barb Wire
      Duchess - Annual
      Registered On: September 16, 2021
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      Hi Makayla!

      Welcome to CDH!

      I was a shy child and young adult once upon a time. I was quite intimidated by well-put-together folks, no matter what age they were. However, I slowly gravitated to toward them anyway, kinda like a story-book child opening a secret door to an enchanted world not knowing if there are benevolent or evil folks on the other side.

      Then one day I just said, “F*CK IT!”, and kicked the door down.

      CDH is a warm and welcoming place! Some of us may put the boot down on the accelerator, but I say just hang-on, contribute and enjoy the ride!

      🚗 Barb 🤗

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      Anonymous
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      I appreciate all of your responses sooo much. i want to have you as friends here,but can’t seem to see how to send an invite…If you can tell me how to invite you to be my friend, I will gladly do so,or you can send me a friend invite and I will accept…I am seeking a place to get together in south east Georgia,halfway between Savannah and Macon…Google searches are ruening up nothing…Any help would be wonderfully appreciated..Thank you,Makayla Lee

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      Catherine Dickson
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      Registered On: January 22, 2020
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      My wife is only just barely tolerant, but I hope to get her to connect with other SOs here.  I’m happy for your new  steps you’re making and sorry to hear about the marriage.  We can only try our best to grow together and I hope the best for you.

       

      Hugs,

      Catherine

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    • #568738
      Anonymous
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      I am hoping to see how others come to terms with thei femme self..I also realize that some are totally closet crossdressers,where others may hope to trans at some point.  I think somewhere in between is someone who is where I am in self realization,anxiety and dreams.

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      • #568770
        Julie (Jules) Anderson
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        Registered On: February 9, 2021
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        To start, girlfriend, I’d suggest you find a good counselor versed in gender issues. With zoom, this counselor could be anywhere. One of first counselors had transgender spouse. Find one who you feel comfortable with. I’d also suggest meditation and seek spiritual guidance as well to find your authentic true self, and then practice loving yourself, ALL of your self. It’s a process consisting of steps, with the hardest being the first.
        I wish you well!
        Hugs
        Jules

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    • #567770
      Stephanie Flowers
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      Registered On: June 26, 2017
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      Makayla… welcome, express yourself with complete confinance. Here our ladies are so understanding and very supportive. Meet with some of them and enjoy their help and most of all  acceptance to  make your time here such a wonderful experience. Making friendships is so much fun and know there’s always someone here to talk to and to listen when needed.  Happy to meet you and hope to see you sometime here soon.   Hugs

       

      Stephanie 🌹

       

       

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      • #568734
        Anonymous
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        I have few friends ,and have always been a loner.  I hope to develop friendships here with others who are experiencing what I aam.

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    • #567728
      Alice Underwire
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      Registered On: September 16, 2019
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      Hi Makayla,

      Welcome to CDH!  Congratulations on your make over.   You’re on the way to being the real you so let her out.

      Alice

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      • #568735
        Anonymous
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        I am trying to come to terms with how much and where to let Makayla out,I have been blessed that a beautician arranged for me to meet her at the salon after hours ,totally dressed en femme here(1st time outside of my bedroom),and gave me a hour and a half makeover,with no judgement at all,it felt liek 2 girls doing makeup.

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          Alice Underwire
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          Hi Makayla,

          That is great about your make over after hours.  As far as letting her out plan an outing, perhaps, a drive to do some Window shopping, a drive through the pick up of coffee or lunch, or a walk around the block.  You’ll likely enjoy your outing so much Makayla will want to venture out more often.    You might want a manicure or trip to the mall to look at Victoria Secret lingerie.  I find most women just smile and men are wrapped up in their own thoughts and won’t look as long as you try to blend in.  Have fun!

          Alice

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    • #567691
      Michelle Trott
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      Registered On: April 7, 2021
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      Welcome Makayla. That is very brave and not so shy to go to a salon. That is a goal of mine sometime.. I am sorry to hear of your marriage. I hope you find some support and advice from the girls on here. And you have nothing to be ashamed about. Hugs.

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        Anonymous
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        I do not have relatives here,my parents live 800 miles away and do not know about MAkayla,..My soon to be ex wife,does support me as a good friend….I know it sounds weird,but we are getting along better now,though she is not comfortable with it,she wants me to accept it as part of me.

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    • #567673
      Terri Anne
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      Registered On: February 7, 2018
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      Hi Makayla,

      Welcome to our amazing site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore to your heart’s content.

      The warmth and hospitality of our community is just awesome.

      Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on our site.

      At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via [ PM ] Private Messages.  You can find the link on each member’s Profile page.

      Also, you may find what you need such as Help Center or Ambassadors by using the links in the top R/H drop down 3 bar [ hamburger ] menu.

      Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each.

      https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/

      Regards,

      Terri Anne, Ambassador

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    • #567588
      Liara Wolfe
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      Registered On: August 14, 2021
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      Welcome to CDH.

      Hugs, Liara

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    • #567572
      Jessica Maddison
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      Registered On: August 31, 2021
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      Hello Maykayla..Welcome to CDH.. Just Love Your Name … Being Here..is is a Wonderful Start.. to begin Your True Self… all of US..      are willing to Be your Friends           all You need to do…is ASK..                        With Love Jessica 💕

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    • #567537
      Elizabeth(Liz)
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      Registered On: October 7, 2021
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      Wellcome Maykayla

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    • #567501
      Nancy Gamms
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      Registered On: March 1, 2017
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      Welcome to CDH.  This is great place to converse with others with a shared interest.  Where you go from here is entirely up to you but I think your acknowledgement of where you are and having some support will help you find your way.

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