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    CDH JS
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    Members, in recent months there has been a profusion of private rooms created for sex chat, some by members, some by guests. Too many members did not understand the concept of ‘private’ rooms and posted passwords or extended invitations in the public chat room. This has caused embarrassment and discomfort to other members on what is a support site. As a result, no form of sex chat will now be tolerated at Crossdresser Heaven.

    Ambassadors have been directed to monitor private rooms periodically. They will enter private rooms and establish the nature of the conversation. If they are satisfied that the conversation is acceptable they will then leave the room. If rooms are password protected and the password is not shared in the public room, the room will remain private from all other members. Site authorities (Ambassadors and Managers) have always had the ability to monitor private rooms so this is not new. What is new is the hardened approach to sex chat.
    There are plenty of other sites that allow sex chat so if that’s your thing, go there.

    Crossdresser Heaven is not a sex chat site.

    For those paying members who private chat with other members and those who use the phone app. the same rules apply, as will the same penalties for those found to be chatting in breach of the rules.

    Should an Ambassador discover that sex chat is happening the following action will be taken:
    For a first offence: The members involved will be given a warning.
    For a second offence: Members will be given a warning and banned from the chat rooms (24 hour suspension).
    For a third offence: Members will be given a final warning and banned from the chat rooms (24 hour suspension).
    A fourth offence: Members will be banned from chat and their account suspended, pending deletion.

    There will be no appeal. These actions are to keep CDH a safe, supportive and accepting place for members of the transgender community, their friends and family.

    JaneS
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     kimberly klark 
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    thanks and hi to all new member but life long enfem lover and dresser

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     Shawnna Otis-Ross 
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    That really makes me feel better knowing this. I don’t mind talking with our sisters about CD and other subjects, however I do not like all the sex stuff. I been to a few other communities and it’s just shameful.

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     Lady Veronica Graunwolf 
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    Miss Jane.  I do agree with you 100 per cent. I do not use chat rooms for this very reason. I have no time for this type of stuff. I do, however, try to assist new members with  the psychological issues and do get into medical question/ answering where I can but all of this is strictly done on private communication with said member with their approval. If things get dicey with Club Rules or I feel that things are getting a little risque, I will switch over to my own private e-mail for consultations. I trust that this is satisfactory within CDH guidelines…..if not,  please let me know. I am here to guide/assist those who a having difficulties with their choices…..I am not DR. Ruth Westheimer.

    Of course, I will continue to welcome new members and pass on any tid-bits that I feel are relevant to the general population.

    Regards as always….and thank you for your vigilance with the site. It is unique and I wish it to stay that way.

    Lady Veronica

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     paula oden 
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    i would like to know how to ask questions about other subjects thank u

    kenneth payne

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     Zara 
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    Im glad that you dont allow sex chat i just want be me and not hassled for sex talk im not a slut or perv im traped in this body just want freinds who accept im zara thankyou

    Zara freeman age 50 uk

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     Steffany Harman 
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    Thank you C.D.H. that’s y I like this site and not the others I’ve been on because of the no sex chat rule. It’s important to me to have somewhere to talk about crossdressing and what comes with it without sex talk. If someone want to sex chat there’s pleanty of places out the to do so. So once again thank you CDH. Steffany.

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    it is good for a place to have rules that are implemented, this is a safe place for us to be ourselves with out the threat of being sexually objectified

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    I joined yesterday did not even know how to join in on chat.  I just said good evening introduced myself. And I tried to join again today and it says I’m band from chat room.    I only said good evening

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    Lanna, thanks for the info.  We’ll keep an eye on it

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     Lanna Barton 
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    The other day I had reported a person who was sending me private messages telling me he wants to be my lover. I noticed his account is still active. It really creeped me out. Thought this was truly a safe place. But, I guess some bad apples do slip in.

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     Veronica Raines 
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    Welcome Dannie.

    Veronica Raines.

    I live in La Mesa, Ca. which is 10 miles east of San Diego.

    Veronica Raines

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     Dannie Engle 
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    I am a new member to the site. This is the only one I’ve found that has the “no sex rule”. I know I’m safe here and can finally open up about the woman inside me.

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     Rowan Ailbhe Williams 
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    Oh myy….a place to not be bombarded by porn and the constant  harassment of Randy the Rando…   Thank you so much for that.

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     Veronica Raines 
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    As I’m a new member, I’m still finding my way around. I think the rule, regarding no sex chat, is a good one. Thank you.

     

    Veronica Raines

    I live in La Mesa, Ca. which is 10 miles east of San Diego.

    Veronica Raines

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     Cynthia Dubois 
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    Yay! Finally a safe chat site with rules.  I love it!!

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