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    CDH JS
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    Members, in recent months there has been a profusion of private rooms created for sex chat, some by members, some by guests. Too many members did not understand the concept of ‘private’ rooms and posted passwords or extended invitations in the public chat room. This has caused embarrassment and discomfort to other members on what is a support site. As a result, no form of sex chat will now be tolerated at Crossdresser Heaven.

    Ambassadors have been directed to monitor private rooms periodically. They will enter private rooms and establish the nature of the conversation. If they are satisfied that the conversation is acceptable they will then leave the room. If rooms are password protected and the password is not shared in the public room, the room will remain private from all other members. Site authorities (Ambassadors and Managers) have always had the ability to monitor private rooms so this is not new. What is new is the hardened approach to sex chat.
    There are plenty of other sites that allow sex chat so if that’s your thing, go there.

    Crossdresser Heaven is not a sex chat site.

    For those paying members who private chat with other members and those who use the phone app. the same rules apply, as will the same penalties for those found to be chatting in breach of the rules.

    Should an Ambassador discover that sex chat is happening the following action will be taken:
    For a first offence: The members involved will be given a warning.
    For a second offence: Members will be given a warning and banned from the chat rooms (24 hour suspension).
    For a third offence: Members will be given a final warning and banned from the chat rooms (24 hour suspension).
    A fourth offence: Members will be banned from chat and their account suspended, pending deletion.

    There will be no appeal. These actions are to keep CDH a safe, supportive and accepting place for members of the transgender community, their friends and family.

    JaneS
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     Veronica Raines 
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    Welcome Dannie.

    Veronica Raines.

    I live in La Mesa, Ca. which is 10 miles east of San Diego.

    Veronica Raines

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     Dannie Engle 
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    I am a new member to the site. This is the only one I’ve found that has the “no sex rule”. I know I’m safe here and can finally open up about the woman inside me.

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     Rowan Ailbhe Williams 
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    Oh myy….a place to not be bombarded by porn and the constant  harassment of Randy the Rando…   Thank you so much for that.

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     Veronica Raines 
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    As I’m a new member, I’m still finding my way around. I think the rule, regarding no sex chat, is a good one. Thank you.

     

    Veronica Raines

    I live in La Mesa, Ca. which is 10 miles east of San Diego.

    Veronica Raines

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     Cynthia Dubois 
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    Yay! Finally a safe chat site with rules.  I love it!!

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     Lady Veronica Graunwolf 
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    Hi Jane!  God knows I am all for freedom of action and expression. I fought in Vietnam to protect and instill these rights for another nation as well as Our own. When it comes to private affairs, politics and racism……….I don’t accept that in my life. I absolutley hate  the media, religion and certain individuals who preach this sort of stuff. Sex talk belongs to 2 individuals and should be private between them. I don’t mind parades but rasicim and sexual shenanigans in public are not for me. There is a time and place for everything.

    I personaly   have not seen any of this on the site and I thank you for your efforts to edit this out. All the chats and responses….you must spend an awful amount of time editing. I for one humbly thank you for your efforts to make this a great site.

    Lady Veronica Graunwolf

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     CDH JS 
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    No loss. I guess you didn’t read what the site is about. This isn’t the place for you but have fun wherever you end up.

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     Sheelah Shagswell Shagswell 
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    I’m out!

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     BillieJo55 Smith 
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    Thank you Jane for the clarification about this site, I am looking for support not dating or disgusting talk. Glad I found this place to help me cope with my new life.

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     Rhonda Roe 
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    Yes Ladies, please keep this site a safe place for support and discussion. I was a member of another site that went to h*** in a hand basket because of inappropriate photos and comments. I Love this place and want to keep clean. I shudder when I see the word Skype.
    xxxRhonda

    Just because I can!!!

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     CDH JS 
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    Members, we’ve all heard the expression about rotten apples spoiling the barrel.

    Despite the firm statements on CDH policy there are still members who ignore the rules and engage in inappropriate conversations in chatrooms. Please read through these rules again.

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     CDH JS 
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    Bronwyn, discussions about sexuality are acceptable as long as, like you say, those discussions remain inoffensive. It’s okay to discuss one’s sexuality but not okay to try get graphic about where that sexuality might lead.

    You are correct, there’s no need to get ‘dirty’.

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     Bronwyn 
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    While i totally agree with your request for no sex chat, does that mean we can’t chat about our own sexuality in terms that wont offend anyone else?  One can talk about sexual issues without the “dirty” side of it. Just a thought.   Bronwyn

     

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     CDH JS 
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    Hi Zena, you are fine dear. I just moved your reply, which was essentially an introductory post, to the Introductions forum where people will be able to get to know you.

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     zena simmons 
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    To miss jane I do hope I haven’t offended you in anyway as don’t think that have spoken on subject your bringing up an have tried stick to what’s being brought up n do hope I’m not one those who’s on your ban list because do like being on here*zena

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