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Hi Sally,
First, I always enjoy your comments.
I have a very satisfying sex life with my wonderful wife of 32 years, but I consider myself to be gay. I don’t like “bi” or pansexual(WTF is that?).
I am open and willing to have sex with a man. I am not seeking or pursuing anything, and I have no plans to do so. That said, just like Michelle said she wants the experience. So do I. I said to Amy a few minutes ago that the main part of my heart and soul has become a woman. I would very much like to have sex as a woman, but I am choosing, as Amanda, to remain celibate.
Affectionately,
Amanda
Three things:
1. That sounds wonderful, and I am jealous. 🙂
2. You should do it.
3. Don’t label yourself, just do you.
Michelle,
I wish you luck in your adventure. Please be careful, take your time, be sure of each step you want to advance, and make sure he understands if you say to wait. Your first time with a man can, and probably will be, overwhelming to some degree
Above everything else, enjoy the experience and have fun as you find out all the ‘new’ you will find in it.
PaulaF
Sally, I , have been reading all your comments yours the others I have been dressing for many years and have been single many years.. It took me many years to admit I was a gay Cross Dresser And that was after I met the man I have been with or should say seeing as He is married. We see Each other when the coast is clear
and this was the first time really enjoyed this man > When I was younger I had sexual realtions with men and enjoyed nSo All I can say is if your thinking of it being with a man Go for It.Hugs
Stacey sI guess I’m going to be the odd girl out 🙂
I certainly think you should follow your dreams. The way you describe this, though, it seems like more of a lark. As such, I’d approach it as a bell which can’t be un-rung…and for what it’s worth I’d give the same advice to a man who was looking to lose his virginity with a woman, including my younger self. I’m not saying don’t do it, but I AM saying do it if it’s something you really want.
Go for it Michelle but as Sally said come out and say your gay or bisexual, there’s nothing wrong with it and this is the place to say it, no one here is going to laugh or criticize you. I hope it turns out to be great for you, the most important thing is to relax and enjoy. Relaxing is important to the mental pleasure and the physical side too because if your tense it will hurt. You have to relax and accept his love, take it in and feel how wonderful it really is. I love it, especially the climax, trust me.
Michelle,
I was wondering how it went and if you had a good experience. I have similar feelings as you and would love to hear your experience.
Paula
you should definitely do it and definitely tell us how things went 🙂
i have been with men many times while dressed and while some experiences were better than others, all of them were positive. a couple were even earth shattering, pure magic.
i am among those here who would describe sex with a man as the most purely femme experience you can have. i always call it “cross dressing, but on rocket fuel”
good luck! have fun!
Congratulations Saphire , a wonderful time for you , feeling complete 💐💐
Good for you Michelle and have a wonderful night! This is a complex topic for me to be honest i identify as a female so for me when i am with a Man one day i do not think of it as gay. But i suppose like everything – everyone has a right to their own opinions. i do day dream of my dating often and while i have had some encounters with Men i have never yet gone all the way – i suppose i need that emotional connection with the right Man before i go all the way. i think of it was the most fulfilling of all acts with a Man. Oh my now i am all excited <giggles>
hugs and kisses,
suzette
Lovely, enjoy and best wishes to you xx
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