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I like wearing my bra to work or out on casual days, though I fear that people will notice the bra straps or any other part of the bra poking out of my shirt (despite my shirt being loose fitting more often than not), I’ve worn it a few times though usually on quiet days when less people are around if any or when I can go out with a jacket
Im curious if this has been an issue for others and what y’all did to hide your bra or bra brand suggestions that are more discreet but feel good
This is for going out in a more casual normal self rather than fully dressed up
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Registered On: April 11, 2017Topics: 38Replies: 1160Has thanked: 5218 timesBeen thanked: 5320 timesHi Colina
For a casual normal look as you say, I have a few simple tee shirt bras. No lace, seams, bows or ribbons. A proper fit will make it look less conspicuous. Make sure your band and cup size fit well, too tight or loose or big could make it more obvious under clothes.
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- Registered On: September 13, 2019Topics: 12Replies: 1007Has thanked: 1 timeBeen thanked: 4204 times
It all depends on what you want or care about. One can wear a bra pretty anytime, anywhere with just a little effort to conceal it, or not. Some places like work, I always wear a lose patterned shirt, and a variety of bras or bralettes. Racer back bras are also a good stealth option. Some days I don’t care if my bra is noticed, and occasionally I like it to be noticeable and then I wear thinner shirts and/or tighter shirts or blouses. You have options, so wear your bras when and where you like, just adjust accordingly.
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When I’m out in the neighborhood shopping and don’t care for others to know I’m underdressing, I wear a lace bralette under a golf shirt. I can put my DD triangle forms inside the bralette while I’m driving and remove them before getting out of the car. Yes, the bralettes have the noticeable adjusting metal piece on the shoulder straps as well as band hooks. I try not to move such that I stretch the shoulders or back of my shirt tightly. That would be a dead giveaway. The bralettes come with a padded insert that I remove and toss out. I’ve put small (A/B cup) silicone inserts in the pockets. All they would look like to an observer is man boobs that many men my age have (and I don’t have).
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- Registered On: February 27, 2020Topics: 3Replies: 1202Has thanked: 6018 timesBeen thanked: 5435 times
Have always loved being in a bra and no longer care if noticed. In male mode i wore a cup or b cup so not much to notice unless in a tight top but a larger shirt hides my cups better. When out in fem mode I love showing off my bra and sometimes wear my c cup bras with forms and no problem showing off straps in a tank top. The bra is to be worn to enjoy
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- Registered On: November 1, 2021Topics: 40Replies: 813Has thanked: 16752 timesBeen thanked: 4891 times
Hi girls,
I have to go with ‘not an issue’. Being a full time gal the bra is just part of my every day wardrobe, and my 42D’s are always out front and certainly not discrete, LOL
Hugs,
Ms. Lauren M
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I love bras, they drive me crazy. I have many, but the nicest ones are in lace playtex, without underwire, very soft. They wrap around my breasts very well and lift them up. Black and white, I alternate them. I often go out with a shirt on and no one seems to notice, in the end even without them they would notice my small breasts, right? actually lately I feel gratified if someone notices my breasts..
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- Registered On: April 22, 2023Topics: 14Replies: 762Has thanked: 2687 timesBeen thanked: 1752 times
If you are underdressing, then straps are just the beginning. What about how noticeable the front lumps are?
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Front lumps? I’m presuming you mean my chest
That isn’t noticable, it’s more of just the adjusters and the back material in more concerned
- Registered On: June 13, 2018Topics: 3Replies: 469Has thanked: 10447 timesBeen thanked: 2105 times
I typically wear a bralette with a camisole over to further minimize what I am wearing. A bra is very easy top spot due to the adjuster straps and the back hook. A front hook minimizes this issue
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- Registered On: August 15, 2020Topics: 49Replies: 915Has thanked: 3315 timesBeen thanked: 4684 times
I wear a bralette almost everyday and they don’t seem to show through as much. Sports bras are nice also for this, other then at times the racer back straps can show if it’s a bigger open collar. In the cooler months it’s not an issue at all with a camisole over top and a heavier sweater or hoodie. But now like others have mentioned I don’t really care if people notice and at times I let it show by wearing a patterned bralette or white on white which shows very easily. So not sure how many have noticed it but have had two different times when people have asked me straight up if I was wearing a bra. Both women and I gave them a response of yes. I’ve mentioned in another post the comment I gave back to a woman. She asked why I was wearing a bra and I replied. “ Cause it matches my panties. “.
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- Registered On: November 26, 2017Topics: 18Replies: 276Has thanked: 666 timesBeen thanked: 1371 times
I don’t have that issue because I’m an all or nothing girl. When I’m in male mode, except for my ear studs, I’m fully male. No underdressing. When I’m in female mode, why would I care if someone noticed my bra straps? They’re probably too busy looking at my boobs, anyway. Ha!
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- Registered On: July 26, 2021Topics: 16Replies: 169Has thanked: 405 timesBeen thanked: 1263 times
Earlier in my journey I would take steps to make sure bra straps didn’t show. I would wear a tank top under a T-shirt so there were two layers of material on top of my bra.
As I got older, though, I started to care less and less. Almost to the point of forgetting I was even wearing a bra and panties. Ive been discovered more than once while getting a haircut, or bending over in a grocery store isle…. Honestly it feels pretty good to not care what others think sometimes.10 users thanked author for this post.
- Registered On: August 15, 2020Topics: 49Replies: 915Has thanked: 3315 timesBeen thanked: 4684 times
I hear you there and some days I let it show. At the same point where I don’t really care if someone notices and have had it happen a few times while grocery shopping.
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Hi Colina. I have found sport bras or bralettes are best. I usually wear a baggy shirt and in winter a t shirt under a shirt or sweatshirt. In the summer just a loose shirt. There are many style bras with no strap adjusters or hooks. I even have a few wonder bras. Some sports bras have some padding which can be taken out. They are not real noticeable if left in but that is a personal choice. Take care and have fun shopping!!!!!!
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- Registered On: August 27, 2017Topics: 144Replies: 1409Has thanked: 12 timesBeen thanked: 6252 times
Hello Colina,
Simple one word answer.. Bralettes . OK more than one word. The brands you can buy with no strap adjusters and no hooks and eyes in the bra band.
I have three lovely ones in different colours from a Canadian brand out of Montreal. You should be able to pick the name up from a google search, but feel free to PM me if you want the name.
They have a lovely lady up in Brisbane QLD as their local distributor.’
Happy (daytime) dressing
Caty.
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